should I divorce my wife for cheating on me??
By butchi74
@butchi74 (810)
Indonesia
November 25, 2009 5:29am CST
my wife is cheating on me, she ask me for forgiveness, but after that, she come back to that man, this happen 6 times....6 times i forgive her, but she do it again with the same man...should I divorce her???
2 responses
@saizo6 (2199)
• United States
26 Nov 09
It's really your choice but I would say "YES". She's already done this 6 times so she's obviously not remorseful for cheating on you. Once is a bit too much for me but if she really regretted doing that then you would probably be able to work things out. But the second time should have clued you in that there was no way she was going to remain faithful. No amount of counseling or whatever can help you. I'd just get a divorce and move on. I'm sure you can find someone better.
@saizo6 (2199)
• United States
26 Nov 09
Ah...I just read some other posts and realized that you have a daughter. You should just focus your attention on your daughter, even if you get a divorce you can still be a part of her life. And if you do get custody of her, you can arrange it where her mother can be a part of her life too. There are ways to go about doing it. But that's just me. I haven't been in your situation so my opinion might not be worth much.
@sid556 (30959)
• United States
25 Nov 09
I would have had a very hard time forgiving the first time and certainly would not have put up with it for 6 more times. You are more than patient with this woman and she does not deserve your love nor your trust. I say divorce this woman and take some time to get over your hurt and then put your energy into a woman who is trustworthy and return your love as you deserve.
