How long are you single?

I think I'll became single until I find a girl that love for what I am. A girl that understand me in any aspect that I have posses. Being a single is not good because it always think about companion most especially at night being cold...Are you single?

There was a point in my life that I'm wishing I had someone. I had a boyfriend, only once, and that was like 4 or five years ago. Anyway, it doesn't matter now. I see many of my friends who rushed themselves into falling in love only to realize that they aren't yet ready for any commitment. I don't like to end up that way. I know having a relationship doesn't always mean your always happy. There are also problems to be expected. But if you're prepared for it, true love will knock you off. Yes, I believe in Love. So being single doesn't also mean loneliness. You're right, we can choose to be happy or joyful with our status right now. Single people have so much reason to be happy and joyful! GOD bless

I've been single for 2 years now.lately,I've been playing the fifth wheel with my colleagues.but it's ok with me.sometimes,I feel lonely and wish that someone will date me.I actually wish that some rich guy will find me pretty and take me around shopping.while it is fun,I am happy spoiling myself.I think no other guy can love me as much as I love myself.

i was single for 29 years. i didn't regret it. i enjoyed my life, i had work, i has enough time for myself. in short, i have enough time to settle issues, like work, friends, night outs, etc, etc. before i get married. so now i can say that i hadn't missed anything when i was still single. so just the same, enjoy yourself first. somebody will just come in God's time, to fill the other half of you. Good luck..

does it matter how long I've been single? well, i spent 22 years of my life being alone- that means no boyfriend, no dates (not even a group date), and no courtship. why? because i was raised by a devout catholic and a very strict parents who had this view in life; that we have to finish college first before we could enter into that kind of commitment. and we cannot possibly disobey them. not until i moved here in manila that i accept men in my life. and that's pretty awful.

"Seems to be waiting for your Ideal" . Its ok as far as you are not in love with any one in your life you can remain happy for as many years as you are being granted. But only thing that can make it difficult to remain single is Lost Love. If you have ever liked some one or have been betrayed etc. The memories won't let you remain "happy" But if you are alone like alone from the day of birth without even tasting the flavour of Love than you can easily call yourself happy. But this happiness is what you think is happiness. Happiness seeks no limit. Once there comes into your life some one who Loves you and take care of your feelings and needs even of minor things than the real happiness begins. I agree to you in that context that waiting for some one Like that is far better than falling in a jerky or fake relationship and weeping for all life Long.

I am very Happily Single as I say it. I am not a relationship person for some reason and thus very happy being single with my cat. However, I am married to my work. Ainge

No boyfriend since birth. That's me....I don't know how long would I be single. But I hope it's not forever...lol

I am been single since birth..lol.. actually i have previous not so serious relationship as they always like to take me seriously and the problem is me as i do not like to jump automatically. although, i feel bored being single when i am not single i also feel bored as i long for my freedom. I think i do enjoy being single blessedness as most say able to do what i want without worrying for other approval which is very important to learn to love first yourself first before other else.

I have been single for 2 years after my terrible break up..Sad?Of course sad,especially when you see that all of your friends are already married with kids and i am a WOMAN!Single in the 30s?What a shame,that`s what i thought... But one day, i met a person who happened to be my senior in campus,female,35 years old...she is still single too,and she is grateful that she is single because there are so many things that we can learn from other people`s marriage,from success story to failures...(and now we`re gonna work at the same place:) It doesn`t mean that we`re traumatic because some of our friends are divorced too..What i mean is marriage is not that easy..i want to get married,of course,but there must be commitment between us and our partner,besides love ,of course.Love is important,but commitment is more important as it can be as a reminder when we`re out of track. It`s fine to try to find love,but still, don`t be so rushy..just le it flow..let love find you in the right way and the right moment..Now,just enjoy yourself..don`t think negatively too much about what other people might say coz you don`t know what will happen next..you`re single not because you`re not worthy,but it`s not your time yet...enjoy your life,keep praying and hoping and keep positive

I'm single and I'm fine with it. I have a life that is full and I'm satisfied with that. I would like to meet a great guy to settle down with, but I'm not going to put aside everything and make that my "goal" in life. If it happens, that's great. If it doesn't, that's fine too.

Being single means being independent; being able to control things that are related to us. Being responsible for us. SO being single mostly results in happiness. But, some people find pleasure in letting some one else control some aspects of their life. It is fine and workout well for some people especially if their partners understand well but for some, it goes as a nightmare. Some people are so self indulged and introverts that they refuse to accept others in their life, even for small things.

for almost 21 years now, i never had any intimate relationship with someone.all my life i've spent my time with my friends and family. a lot of people are asking how's my love life.i would just sigh and say, "i have no love life".and they would be skeptical about it.they would ask me again if who was the lucky guy.so, i ended up expressing my sentiments and insecurities. although i have a cute face, but i'm chubby and short which leads me to the conclusion that no one will ever get attracted to me. then they will assure me not to worry because it will come my way at the right time. i don't know if i could get married. i think i'd stay single for the rest of my days.

hi, i think you fear that the one with whom u get committed might spoil your freedom and your joyful life.. what you think is correct in one way.. but why don't you try to find a person who can be an accelerator for your desired life who can understand and live happily with your feelings, requirements and expectations.. you might leave the idea of living alone if this come true.. am i correct?

I also believe that if there is a person meant for me then she would find me or I would find her. It might take some time. I am in no hurry. Its better to wait and find a good person than to flirt around with many.

For me I've been a single for 25 years after that not a single anymore but I'm not regret that I'm married even if many problems in your life because it is the way you live as a married but if your choice that you want that it is good.

hai becdmd, I'm single since Jul 2004, so roughly its been 5 years from my last relationship.. nope, I didn't feel that I must have girlfriend all the time..and I'm completely content with my current status :) yeah, I'm also saving my love for the right girl. personally, i believe quality is batter than quantity when it comes to relationship..

I am single now, i think this situation is good since i am free enough to do whatever i like. Perhaps I will fall in love with someone in the near future, now i am enjoy this kind of life. Just being yourself, everything will be ok.

Actually I'm not single, but I've been single for a while. Now I see it from a different point of view, but I was the "omg, nobody will ever love me" type. Fortunately now I think I was overreacting. It can come sooner or later, but even so, there's nothing bad about being single ;)

I can't tell the difference because I was never committed to anybody but I think being single is fun. You can do whatever you want. Date anyone you want and you only have to worry about yourself. But I think having someone is better because you can have someone who could be there for you.