Do you support "Selling Flesh"is the only alternative to get money..
By Baluyadav
@Baluyadav (3643)
India
November 25, 2009 9:28pm CST
Sometimes i feel sympathy and some times i feel bad,by seeing them on the streets..i don't know whether i have to start this discussion or not..or what can we/society/government/NGO's do to uplift their lives..
9 responses
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
I don't consider it as the only alternative because there are a lot out there. Selling flesh is just more profitable otherwise men and women who are into this business will not thrive. its a fact that majority of those in this type of trade earns more than those who have a regular 9-5 jobs. And to think that all they do is just spread their legs. And some of those who are lucky even end up as mistresses of the rich. There are a lot of benefits as far as the material things are concerned although it has its risks too. But if you are aware and protect yourself, there's money in this trade. Although it's a different story when we talk about morality. It's usually poverty that leads people to enter this trade but the problem is when they get use to the easy money whoring brings it's hard to get out. Cheers!
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
9 Dec 09
Hi,thank you ,ybong,for your analytical response.There are nacked truths in your response,may be many pseudo humanists may not agree...
Apart from overty there are many resons to enter into that business by girls,which is awkward to discuss..
Have a nice time.
@chriswolf (360)
• China
29 Nov 09
nope, i don't agree with that.
i don't think to sell flesh is the only alternative to get money.
but i also have to say it is the easiest way to get money.
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
29 Nov 09
hi,chris,yes,it is the result of financial stress,irresponsible fatherhood[gambling,drinking..]social circumstances...reasons for it.
Have a nice time.
@tulipstrader (1467)
• India
26 Nov 09
it is not the only alternative. some are forced into this by goons and criminals. so one cannot pass a comment on them as they are helpless and have no one to turn for help.
but there are others who are into it for just money's sake. i cannot say with certainty what makes them take to this while they have all the talents in the world to earn a decent living.
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
27 Nov 09
hi,yrs,tulip,there are many,but situations..circumstances made them like that..when we need money desperately,few professional buggers trap them by offering money..
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
26 Nov 09
hi,no we do condemn this acts but we are helping them to stop this kind of work.we usually help them to divert from doing or selling their bodies to more reasonable job educating them to put-up own business rather than selling their bodies.the government in my land help especially those minor and held them to some institution that will protect them and help them to recover from trauma.the department of social and welfare development are the body that help those unfortunate one especially those minor and young individuals.nice topic here...
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
27 Nov 09
hi,amy,i have seen both types of girls in the society..the first one is because of circumstances and forced to do..the second one is habituated to luxurious life/easy going eventhough they are rich...
we really sorry for the first ones,as somebody mentioned here.society,irresponsible fatherhood and motherhood,poverty..might e cause for this situation..
I am always ready to protect from them,what ever i can...
Have a nice day.
@deepasubramani (1074)
• India
26 Nov 09
Hi Baluyadav,
I dont agree with this. Seeling flesh is not the alternative to get money. Some time i feel pity on them once i see them on streets. There are many ways to earn money other than this. There are so many Ngo's coming uup to uplit there lives. But i personally feel that situtations makes them like that.
Have great day
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
27 Nov 09
hi,yes,Deepa,yes,in majority cases,circumstances makes them..few come into this who initially habituated to luxurious life...then,it's become invetible..
Any how irresponsible fatherhood[gambling,drinking..]financial crisis..also one of the reasons...
Happy mylotting.
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
26 Nov 09
In my opinion, I do not think it is the best way to sell flesh to make money. Because there many ways for you to do in the world. You can just do some part time job, it still can earn a lot of money. So that may not be a way to earn money. Happy mylot.
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
27 Nov 09
hi,monkey,i think this is all because of poverty one side..and trap the women by articular gangs consisting of both men and women..and earn money by flesh business..
This is bad and one has to think of it.We don't feel those who intentionally do even though rich,and we can't do anything.
@vandana7 (100531)
• India
26 Nov 09
Hi Baluyadav, I feel sorry for such people, and my heart is full of thanks to god, and my parent for having given me better chance in life. Start from some sad situations - you have a large family, it is difficult to make two ends meet, the lady of the house has been too busy with increasing mouths to feed rather than taking up some jobs and supplementing income at home. I know this sounds cruel way to put it, but when the eldest girl child chooses to get into flesh trade, because she doesnt have any education, and cant wait to be educated while the younger siblings are starving, I develop a contempt for such motherhood. That is one of the commonest scenarios in our country. At times, the children choose to leave home because they are told bright future awaits them in cities, and they want to bring their family out of rut. Once they land in city, without any proper planning, they become easy victims of pimps. Thereafter, there is no escape for them. Same is the case of children from families of drunkards, and gamblers. Unless the governments stop irresponsibilities such as these (irrepsonsible motherhood,irresponsible fatherhood), I dont see how things are going to change.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
26 Nov 09
Hi,thank you,vandana,for your analytical response and responsible response.I really amazed the reasons behind it.This really a slap to irresponsible fatherhood and irresponsible motherhood....the change starts from them..i saw another corner of this situation from your response..
Till then i saw girls with easy going and habituated to luxuries used to do like this.There are some guys who planned to get in to their trap by utilizing their weakness..trap by praising their beauty..trap by false promise of marrying..
I have no words to type..byr..
@paleorainy (630)
• Italy
26 Nov 09
I don't think it's the only, but sure it is one method.
Right now I'm looking for another job since 2 years and 8 months (started in March 2007) and up to now I've only been able to get 1 (one) interview and they didn't call me back anyways. It's not just a matter of qualifications (I have them) or experience (I have it), it's also a matter of market and luck, if your field isn't on the market now, especially if you are into support positions (secretaries, assistants...) you are not a main figure to hire in time of recession.
I am lucky that I have my current job, that is in a bad place but it pays me, so it's juat a matter of switching job, but if I didn't have this one, I'd be selling flesh for sure.
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
26 Nov 09
Hi,vandana,i appreciate your response,really,if there are few people like you with social responsibility,this type of situations would not happen.This response not only for our friend,paleo..it applicable to all those who are in wrong notion.Hats of vandana,i too support in this issue what ever i can,i afford...
By seeing this and by knowing,there are some people who brought them out of their existing circumstances..they get confidence....
Have a nice day.
@carla_roa (128)
• Philippines
26 Nov 09
I don't agree to this. "Selling flesh" is not "only" the alternative to earn money. It is an alternative but I don't think it is a good way of earning money. There are a lot of ways to have a decent job. You just have to have enough determination in doing it. The mind has no limits, only the attitude limits the mind...
@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
26 Nov 09
Hi,carla,your response is as beauty as you look..that's true..our mind is open,that is upto you for what extent you take decisions..what extent you go up and down falls..as you said 'only attitude limits the mind'.All the best and have a nice time.