Is it possible to fall in love more than Once?
By srija12
@srija12 (211)
India
11 responses
@michael74 (122)
• Singapore
26 Nov 09
Falling in love with more than one person is normal BUT NOT AT THE SAME TIME!
We are not limited to falling in love with a single person in our lifetime.
But it doesn't mean that you could fall in love anytime you want specially if you have an existing a relationship plus the fact that you have to be sure that it is really not only infatuation or admiration.
@Reyachan (589)
• Romania
26 Nov 09
I totally agree with you!! The fact with loving two people at once can;t actually be called falling in love. You can like two people at the same time, you can be unsure about what to choose and may actually wish to combine their qualities, but, unfortunatelly, that can't be possible.
In most cases like the one above, a third person comes along and then you know what falling in love really means.
@eddify (412)
• Pakistan
28 Nov 09
Its really interesting , to know about some people.If u ask me well my ex fell in love some 40/50 times and he is ready to fell in again with someone who shows a little bit of interest.
I am not sure if saying this is right but males are more often like this , they will have a wife at home , a girl friend at work place, some old love of the university and what not.
@cosmos_genius (217)
• India
27 Nov 09
ya it sure is possible but it won't be the same as the ur first love....which will always be there in ur mind....no affection no caring will giv u the feeling that u felt in ur first luv...
@elokps (138)
• Indonesia
27 Nov 09
Some of my friend can fall in love with more than one person in same time , I don't know how. I also try to do it sometimes but I think it's hard how to arrange our time for them. If they know that we are cheating then they will leave us and we got nobody he..he.. If i have fallen in love with someone it's hard for me to give my love to other person at the same time.
@budit17mem (12)
• Philippines
27 Nov 09
yes, it is possible to fall in love with more than one person. falling in love is a feeling that we cannot control, it just happens. love is something we should embrace when it comes. it's when u get to meet a person whom you get attracted to (physical, intellectual, inner beauty and everything). it can happen with more than one person at the same time. this is only best for people who are single bec when u are in love u do crazy things.when u fall in love it makes ur heart beat so fast and just go crazy about this person and to ur surprise, u get to meet another one who makes u feel the same way.
@dhanasekart1984 (450)
• India
27 Nov 09
yes it is possible. but there are few people think that other relationships(affairs) are also love. but thats not true.. after loosing a love due to unavoidable circumstances.. he or she may fall into another love and its quite possible. but guess whether the second one is really love or a kind of affetion or attraction on that person.. but jumping from one person to another is not love and it wont last long..
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
26 Nov 09
Absolutely, falling in love to one or more person is possible. But, such feeling don't have the same degree of love. You may still realize that your love to one is still greater than your love to the other. That is why, we sometimes find ourselves deceived by love because of this kind love reaction. Moreover, there are also tendencies that we misunderstood our feelings and think it is love, when in truth it is just infatuation, admiration, likeness or lust.
Whatever it is....definitely falling in love to more than one is normal.
@Sandra1952 (6047)
• Spain
26 Nov 09
It's certainly possible, but it's also possible to mistake love for something else, like lust or infatuation, or even simply to mistake liking for love. I'm 57, and I know I've been in love 3 times. That's the real McCoy, can't imagine life without that person type of love. The first time, the man I loved killed that love by his treatment of me, although it lasted almost 20 years.
@zenrat1984 (86)
• Norway
26 Nov 09
I have never fallen in love with 2 people at once.I must be awkward situation because at the end of the day you must choose between the 2.Not very nice thing to do.
@Lucky09 (1763)
• Philippines
26 Nov 09
ofcourse! sure! absolutely!
if the first love fails and the pain is gone, another love will come and it will continue this pattern until they find their love of a lifetime.
some even have 2 love at the same time which many don't agree but yes it happens and could possibly happen just to anyone around the world.
uhhmm, don't get me wrong, but why did you think this is not possible?
@Reyachan (589)
• Romania
26 Nov 09
Yes, you can fall in love more than once in your life! Even though after you loose your first love you think you will never love again and nothing like that can ever happen twice, you're wrong.
It does happen. And most of the times you love even stronger after the first dissapointement. You can never know what life has prepared for you and love can literally "hit" you anytime,lol.
I never undrstood people that think they will never love again after they get dumped once and make the lives of their next lovers miserable in the process. I believe these people are the biggest cowards ever.
So what if you get hurt if you become emotionally involved? It will pass!! It just means the person was not right for you and you have to keep searching. wholeheartedly!
Don't you think that it's wrong not to give your best when you start a relationship? Isn't that cheating on yourself as you're robbing your own chance of happiness?