Falling in-love as easy as falling out of love?
By careguarden
@careguarden (5670)
Philippines
November 26, 2009 10:38am CST
I've a guy friend. Who easily fall in love with the woman he barely know for a month. And falling out of love as soon as 1-2 months after the relationship has started. It was like in so many celebrities. They get married for days and divorced for next week. Do you think there is difference in falling in love and falling out of love when it comes to time? Why people tend to fall out of love to soon?
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3 responses
@Loverica19 (43)
• Philippines
27 Nov 09
Hi Care, People who fell out of love easily hates commitment, They still wanted to explore and they want to find a new taste of life which means they are not really sure of their desicions because they don't look forward,what they felt is real just for this moment and the next time it's not the same.. They still see themselves young and they still have the capacity to grow and explore different things than sticking with one serious girl or a guy, however when they finally reached their time they'll still go back to reality where true and long lasting love will stay for lifetime.
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@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
27 Nov 09
You're right my friend, people who fall in love as easy as falling out of love are afraid of committment. That's why they always jumping from one relationhip to another. They always try it out first, every person they met. They're just having fun and playing games in the field of love. I just wish that someday they will be caught and trapped on what they're doing. In my friends case, he's not a married type of guy. He always told me that he truly love all those women who come and go into his life. But I doubt him.lol Anyway thank you for sharing with us and enjoy your day!
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@Fireheart (683)
• India
26 Nov 09
falling in love is easy as child's play, what they dont know is how to maintain it, its like buying something you really wanted and after a couple of day you lose its worth and importance. just like that love can be explained its a pleasure for people,what they dont know is it value and importance and that love is eternal as we say pretty hard to believe on how it becomes eternal,people fall out of love because they might be tired of it feeling and sometimes even be bored.
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@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
27 Nov 09
careguarden,
Spending time with someone intensively for a short period of time doesn't really means that you will know the person better. In fact, one could easily be blinded by how hasty this love goes and not knowing the person well enough to make a decisive judgment (anyway, most relationship ain't built on decisive judgment) on such short span of time.
What you are witnessing, could just be a surface or brief introduction to the real him.
Having a failed relationship or marriage for that matter, doesn't mean he is condemned for life; however, it usually means that this man has some personalities/habits/mindsets which usually exude qualities of being unsociable, unmarriageable or commitment phobic, like individualism or unevolvement. For what you know, it could also be retrospective for the other party, as well.
I am wondering if you are interested in him. If you are then I think there is also more that meets the eye to consider. Take some time to analyze him and decide if he is worth your while. NEVER compromise your age, for an inferior partner that you do not feel secured with (At your age, I am presuming you are seeking for marriageable partners). It's always better to have no marriage, then to marry the wrong man.
Have a nice day.