Were you afraid of marriage?
By smilejanica
@smilejanica (50)
China
November 27, 2009 2:16am CST
I have been together with my boyfriend for about 9 years.While I still don't want to get married with him. I reject marriage with him, not because I don't love him. In fact.now he has been a a part of my life, but every time , when he propsed to me , I felt bored and troubled. so I alwasy escaped and diversed the topic. I knew he's depressed by my indirect rejection. I can't explain to him, I can't tell him that I dislike marriage. If I do, I will surely hurt him, if not , he is always in suspicious of my love to him. Really confused.
2 responses
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
27 Nov 09
This thing , you should have thought about first before falling in love with that boy..Once you have fallen, then u should not think about your career, because the boy will take care of ur career..
actually u are hurting the boy's feelings in many ways..
@vaibhavi80 (243)
• India
27 Nov 09
It is happened with me also. That time I like to build my carrier and i ignore them alot. He feel that I don't like him but the case that I was unable to tell him that I want to build my carrier first. It is only my case but I think many people around us like to be feel free, they don't like to tie in one relation I think they are not prepare to bind in one relation evenif without the loved one they can not live.
For your case you should ask your BF to give you some time for think about marriage.
All the best!!!!!
