finding love...

I'm Filipina too but I'm also observed that foreigners want to marry a Filipina because we are caring and loving. I don't know about other nationalities. It is very hard to find the right person for you on the net because sometimes you don't know if there are honest or not. I hope you going to find the right girl for you soon. YM don't works for me I can't find the right guy for me there.

Hi samsalleh,Welcome to mylot!Well, 5 years are long enough for being single.It's time to move on.I suggest for you to find a girl friend whom you love so much.May be the one in the Philippines is good for you.Filipina is caring,loving,thoughtful and loyal to our love ones.that is the most characteristics of a true filipina.Although,ladies from other countries are good and lovable too, but still i suggest you to try a filipina sweetheart. Thanks,Good luck!

More and more people are falling in love these days as internet helped alot in decresing the miles that come inbetween. I know an Austrlian who is in love with a lady from Philipines and he is going to meet her next year 2010 jan. If everythign comes out good they are planning to get married. I think if u are looking for overseas love y not try some social martrimonial sites they can help u in finding some good people and u can take the initiative from there and leave all the rest to air. I hope you will find someone good soon

love set no boundaries as long as you feel happy then have a relationship with anyone you met whether foreigner or just locals. be sure it is genuine love not just for lust which never stay too long.

For me it is not matter if it is a foreigner or not the important is you have the understanding to each other the important in marriage success is have a patient and more humble attitude both of you so that you feel partial.

Hi samsalleh: Thanks for opening this discusssion. In fact this is the first discussion i have read about thes specific point. In my opinion, falling in love of a foreigner would be a great experience because you'll have the oportunity to know a person with his/her own culture, a new way of thinking, of living, of loving, this seems to me like an amazing way to rediscover our humanistic nature. As long as you know how to communicate each other there's no problem. In fact, love is an universal languaje. Good luck with your searching for the right girl for you. Hopefully you'll find the right one. Have a nice day.

Welcome to the community!I hope you are enjoying your stay here.Five years is a very long time without relationship. How do you get to manage it?Are you not sad or feeling bored? How do you make yourself busy? Actually, we should not look for love, let love finds a partner for you. Love is a feeling that is being felt.It is not searching.I am a filipino, and I believe filipina people are honest, loyal and very hospitable. It is also not important that you will choose of the nationality that you want to marry, you should choose the person that will make you happy.A person that will complete your life, a person that can be with you when you get old.I hope this helps you decide.Happy mylotting!

I have been single for 2 years...i am female,33 years old..I think it`s time for you to open your hears but still, don`t be rushy..i agree with one od the opinions that the more you search,the more difficult you are to find what you want and need..it`s fine if want to try online dating whatsoever,but don`t pish yourself too hard..just let it flow until you find someone who loves you and you love her too..no matter where they are from..wish you all the best

Hi samsalleh, if you have that curiosity in your mind? on how does if feels to fell in love with foreigners? well, i can say it is exciting..but..there are many things needed to reconsider..a great example is your different cultures? beliefs and principles in life..the word "ACCEPTANCE is a must" because the main common problem is " HOW TO SURVIVE IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP" .. but as my piece of advice? just take things slowly.. let friendship be the start of any relationship that might lead you too..sometimes we have to accept the fact that their is always a proper time for everything.. Let real love finds you.. the more you look for it? the great possibility that some may take advantage of your love too.. There is no such perfect relationship but there will be a close to perfect one..however? all relationships from the past? had made you realized things.. Being single for 5 years is too long..and i guess it made you assess yourself in your future plans..since you are hoping to enter for a new relationship? its a new start like ABC or what you call the Basics...so it is a long path to take until you find that someone... Meeting new friends is a great prospect in finding a lifetime partner..most importantly? set to your standards and all positive affirmations...so you will have no regret at the end.. Enjoy all the things that come your way..All of us has turning points too...

Me and my boyfriend are not only from different nationalities, but from different races. I don't mind about that neither does him, so it works pretty well for us. What is important for a relationship to work is that the 2 parties will be compatible, so if you think your soulmate can be from another country, go for it!

Honestly, before I tried to meet guys through online chat with the aid of yahoo messenger and skype because I was broken hearted then but one thing I'd realized is that it didn't help me to find the right one for me so I stopped and focus my attention to the things that I loved to do like writing, reading, cooking and etc.. I think we should not find love instead let that love finds us because as I've noticed the more you search for it the more you can't find it so stop looking and searching because one things for sure there's someone out there that really destined to us.

Wow! 5 years of being single seems like you find it hard to move on from your last relationship and you haven't been dating since. Why are you getting harsh on yourself well in fact you can be happy then? Time is of the essence and you will never know what will happen tomorrow. Why go out and find someone to date? Whoever she is, whatever her race, love comes when you least expect it. And when it comes be sure not to slip it away from your hands... You deserve to be happy!!!