No one's willing to listen!

Do you have husband, close friend, or parents? they are the closest people in your life. Why they wouldn't hear you? I guess, you talk in wrong situation such as in their bad mood or busy things. And one thing which is more important is yourself. Watch your appearance or your smell that may not be good to them. That's what I did if I'm in that case. I would better watch movie alone or read some books, if it's really doesn't work at all.

Sometimes I do. However, the other problem is I don't like to share my personal problem with others. I like to solve it using my own ability. However, when I don't have time, emergency matters etc I would like to ask someone to help me. Maybe a good listener will help in time like that.

sometimes when everyone have their own worries i left to resolve it by myself. though, i learn to be independent most of the times. i still feel good knowing someone is willing to listen and advice me even though i already know to advice myself. things quite differences when some friends or loved one takes their time to advice makes it makes me feel valuable as it mean they are deeply concern with my welfare.

hi becdmd, i have once been there... there was this moment i was all excited and wanted to share this with my very close friend, i call her often and share many things with her and this day i was so excited and wanted to share it with her so badly i don't know why but it kinda felt sad when she didn't have time to attend my call, well but the next day i said her i was actually a little low coz i could not talk with you when i wanted to, i don't have many close friends with whom i share my things, i am a conservative kind and have lesser close friends but they mean so much to me... but well is it quite weird coz i don't like to share my sad times much with them?

I would feel like that sometimes, but not too often. I am the type of person who keeps things by myself. I don't easily open up to people so I think it's just normal for me to feel that way. Well it's my choice. I just feel that no one would really care to listen, so it's better to stick to myself. But don't get me wrong, I am happy with the way I am and I have good friends but I just don't talk about my feelings openly. Take care! :)

yes sometimes I feel so alone and isolated with the people around me... but with God i feel home... Every time I feel so alone that no one out there care to listen.. I speak with God.. after.. I feel so refreshed, inspired, uplifted, as if I have talked to the best listener you could ever had.

becdmd hi sometimes Ihave felt like that but I ended up talking to my best friend Nelda and to my only family my adult son. I have a few friends here but they are not the kind I would feel comfortable confiding private stuff with. I have been through hell this past year and only my best friend and my son, and our friend mike david helped me. the people here in Gold Crest are mostly not wanting to be friends and some are in another world, literally looney tunes world.

The person I expect to listen to my endless rant on big or little things is most of the time late or maybe absent when I am in the room about to sleep. So instead of my frustration going to waste, I tend to just go online here and just share my thoughts instead. In this way, I do not feel so alone thus I can sleep better.

hi we are humanbeings we can tell and discus our problems but what about animals and our pets?We have a dog when I take care of it my wife says you care dog more than yourself and I say it can't tell so we we have to look after it.Also when I feel to share my problem I share with my dog and realy it lisens and sometimes nods,i know i will not get the solution but it helps to reduce my berdan. A friend in need is a friend indeed.take care good life.