decision about life

If it's true love, don't you dare let it go.Who says you have to leave anyone?? Get them all together and have a long talk.Communication is key in every relationship. Tell everyone exactly how you feel and what you want.After all, this is your life.Listen to the advice of others but walk your own path. If it is true love know that drama never stops it.

Hi damneet, First of all, it is always not a good solution to end one's life. "Hope" is always there when you are alive. Love yourself, so that you know how to love others. Calm down, so that you can think of a better way to solve the problem. Don't be so sad. Have you ever talked to your parents about this? Or you just guess that they won't accept your love? Have you dicussed it with your boy friend or any of your friends about your feeling on this particular issue? You may talk to the social worker at your school, too. People would think at different angles for you. I think your parents love you so much. If I were you, I would have tried to talk to my parents and see if there is some light on it. You don't have to die, as the worst thing is you have to marry another person. You have already known what will happen, so you don't need to worry about it. Sometimes life is not so smooth but it doesn't mean that it is bad, as we can learn from experiences. That is how we grow up. I know you love your boy friend so much, but it doesn't mean that the man that your parents choose for you must not a good one. He might be good, too. So, don't be too negative. There is always a way for you. Be calm! Best wishes, agonyaunt69 (1:45am 29 Nov 2009 Hong Kong time)