If you were she.please tell me what's her thinks in her mind?
By chali891206
@chali891206 (37)
November 29, 2009 1:48am CST
A girl always said to me that please don't broke your perfect apperance in my mind.When i do some crude thing or say some crude words,she will tell the sentence to me.Rcecntly,she said to admire me,Because i almost get up every morning at 6 O'clock for Morning Reading.then,she say:"can i go with you for Morining Reading."of course,i say yes!
And she say :"can you give me wake up call everyday ,i'm lazy."
I say:"you can wake up by your alarm clock."
she answer,"my alarm clock can't wake me up."
I get confused...Becace i am the man who don't the gril's words never.
What's the meaning?A girl wants you to give her wake up call everyday?Just want go for Morning Reading with you??
If you were her,please tell me what's her think in her mind..
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@chali891206 (37)
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29 Nov 09
I don't know.May be you are wrong.she just want to go for Morning Reading.she is a excellent girl.i can't imagine.
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@Drsunny21 (556)
• India
29 Nov 09
I cant or even nobody can say wht a girls mind thinks...coz it is very difficult..Only girls can say..But you should give her a wake up call...My gf is very lazy everyday i wake up specially for her to give her a wake up call so she can wake up and go for coll.on time...There is nothing to think much
@chali891206 (37)
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29 Nov 09
yeah!I have done this. I have given twice wake up call.but the first,she's telephone was turn off.she said sorry to me ,because she telephone need charge.The second times,she answered my call.but she continued to lay her bed afer answering my call.NOw, i have said to her ,i won't give her wake up call. My deed is right or wrong?
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@Drsunny21 (556)
• India
29 Nov 09
No i had experience this many times.Sometimes my gf put her ph.on silent and forgot to turn on general mode and in the morning i tried for 7-8 times and aftr i leave a msg to her and when she get up,she says sorry...But i didnt mind..I had done my work and now its upto her if she wants to wake up or not..So just try to explain this tht if u really wants to wake up for reading then do this...and if u cant wake up then adjust other timing for ur reading...Gud luck
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@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
It is actually very simple,she likes you.Can't you feel it?She is trying to get your attention.Even if you have a girl friend, she won't ask you to be her alarm clock, to waker her up every morning. You are very lucky because there is a girl that admire you,but you should not take it advantage.Try to learn how to love her, if it really does not work, tell her so she will be fine and look for a person that is fitted to her.
@chali891206 (37)
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30 Nov 09
I'm sorry,I can't feel it.Love a strange thing.I was scared so much beacuse the two failed love I have experienced.Oh,god!Plesae bestow more courage.
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
29 Nov 09
Some people have a really confusing mind, so I can't really tell what she's really thinking.
Maybe she is insisting so much in yourself waking her up in the mornings because she wants to hear your voice 1st time in the day. If I'm right, that's something really positive.
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@renaissance2010 (249)
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29 Nov 09
It sounds like she likes you and is trying to give a hint to make the first move cause she is shy. She wants to pursue her, there is nothing wrong with her alarm clock.
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@renaissance2010 (249)
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29 Nov 09
annoying i missed out words due to fast typing. Corrections she wants you to pursue her, Trying to give you a hint.
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@eubilisa (211)
• Philippines
29 Nov 09
As a girl I think its normal most specially if the girl is so sweet and wants some attention from you or maybe your too serious that's why she wants you to be sweet. There are time that us girls really want to be treated as if we were special to someone we love and true enough a boy should maintain the fire in their relationship or else the relationship will be cold soon. Its okay to be the real you but you have to exert some efforts to win her attention so she'll be more faithful and sweet to you.
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@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
30 Nov 09
Okay, some women are very complicated. This girl is certainly one of them, and I really cannot begin to tell you what she is really thinking because I do not know what she is really thinking. This girl, to me, seems to be playing games with you, and if you want a serious relationship, then you don't want games.
If she has a "perfect image" of you in her mind, she is unrealistic.
When she says to "admire her", she wants you to be her slave. Sorry to put it that way, but I would never tell my boyfriend to "admire me", that is so ridiculous. What girl really says that? She sounds like a princess, and I cannot stand princesses. I say this because we all know how princesses are, and we all know that they want to be catered to.
She wants you to give her a "wake up call"! What she cannot wake herself up? Is she really that weak? I wake my own butt up every morning. No one does it for me. I have an alarm clock, and four cats who want to be fed at 6AM every morning. I feed my kitties, take my medication, make and eat my breakfast, get ready for classes, and then go to classes. No one does anything for me in the morning because I can do it myself!
This girl is nuts! She is insane. Find a girl who won't make you crazy. This girl is not worth your time. You are a person, not her servant.
@sunshineyunlong (271)
• China
30 Nov 09
Wow,sounds interesting.I have also met with this kind of situation.A girl once said to me that she wanted me to call her up in the morning so that she could have the motivation to get up early.In fact I was really willing to do that because I had a very good feeling with her.Well,it all depends on what is your feeling towards her.Does she care about you much?We can still see something from her behaviour though it is hard to guess what is trully in a girl's heart.As for me,the girl who asked me to call her up become my GF later on.Though we have parted with each other now,the sweet memory still remains.So go for what you like and you what,don't leave yourself any regret.
Have a nice day.
@chali891206 (37)
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30 Nov 09
You have the same experiences with me.But,i don't know whether i will have the same ending with you.I will remmeber your words. "Go for what you like and you want,don't leave yourself any regret"..and then,i know i need more courage.thank you for sharing.
@weirou1987 (6)
• China
1 Dec 09
almost can tell she is interested in u.grab the chance and be initiative.show her u empressment and your love.best wish to you!
@youlechangcs (29)
• China
30 Nov 09
If I was this girl, maybe there are 2 reasons I will do like this, firstly, morning reading is a good habits. secongdly, she adores u or she just likes to be with u....maybe...
@chali891206 (37)
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30 Nov 09
yeah!just maybe.Both we are chinese.where you from?i am from Foshan city Guangdong province.i am a sohister.May i make friend with you?
@abecbie (3)
• Malaysia
30 Nov 09
It very interesting to have such a girl. Because normally, guys wake up late compare with girls. That what i see among my friends. Even during collage days, guys come to classroom late, where girls already filled up the front seats. But your habit of waking up 6 O'clock morning is very good habit & I read somewhere i do not remember that this habit will make you live longer life. Sorry off the topic, I think your girl needs your attention. I remember one day I waked up my sister by shouting on her through the phone, guess what she said? She said, men look more caring & gentleman by waking up their girlfriends. Anyway, I was not gentleman by shouting on her ha ha ha ha ha
@chali891206 (37)
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30 Nov 09
No!you are a real gentleman.And I am not a real gentleman.tell you the bad thing i have done.In fact i have given her wake up call twice.A fist,her telephone was turn off.and then i ask she why.she say sorry to me,becasue she telephone needed charge.The second time,I gave her wake up call again.She answered my call with the tried voice.And then,as is well know,she continued to sleep.After those,i said to her,"i won't give you wake up call again".
do you think i am a bad man? wu..wu..
@b4balaji (410)
• India
29 Nov 09
Even my friend(girl) used to help me wake her in the morning, as I used to get up by 4 am in the morning. So thing you have to understand is this is common among close friends.
If you are expecting some other relation with that girl, and you want to know whether you wanna know whether she is that sort of a girl, I can't help you. Not even some body who has analysed girls for years can answer your question.
@chali891206 (37)
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30 Nov 09
Thank you for your answers.you are right! but love is a strange thing.And I even don't konw what i expcet.It happened too accidentally.So i think i should understand myself deeply.Everything depend on myself..
@cinsinc (2)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
Hi chali,
First of all, I think you need to take up English language classes to communicate better but I get the idea of what your trying to say. Here is what I think, she does these things because she either knows she can depend on you because you are a good friend or she trying to find ways to spend more time with you so you two can be closer. If your thinking she likes or even loves you already, you are already jumping into conclusion. You need more proof than these. If you really like her, be a man invite her to the movies or go to the park or whatever. You two need to do more things together to prove if both of you really like each other more than friends. Hope that helps.
@chali891206 (37)
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30 Nov 09
At frist!Thank you for patience in my sentences.In fact i am studying english now.So,please you can forgive me in english. I will try my best to learn english well.And i sincerely hope you can help me with my english.
Secondly,thank you for your answers.And now i konw what i should do..haha
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
29 Nov 09
Hi, chali. I guess she wants you to pamper her. And I hope that she is not depending on you to the point where she is becoming lazy. If so, don't let her go any further.. Once she gets used to waiting on you hand and foot, then it will be hard for her to do for herself. I just hope that she means well. You will have to talk with her to see what she really expects of you.