what would u do if u were me?

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Hi,everybody! recently i have terribly bothered and hurt by one of my family members, that's my twin brother. let me tell all things briefly. he had been jobless for quite a long time, that's almost 2 or 3years, and actually he was still jobless even now because he got a job with no salary before he have accomplished an order and earn money for sales commision. he always ask me for money despite he is almost 28 years old now. and i am willing to help him as much as i could because he is my elder brother. he have been like this for that long time and i am so worried about him. gradually i realise i can't spoil him anymore. he can never be able to be economic independent. yes, my mom and i have tried every ways to cheer him up and work hard to be independent, but with little use. and of course ,we have quarrels at times. so is what happened between us today. he seems to be overhelmed by lots of pressure and take my words and care as kind of laughing at him or something. i told him i wouldn't give him money anymore because he has to make a living by himself but he thought its because i love my money and also won't beg me for money. right, i always aksed him if he got enough money for living because i just couldn't bear see hime be hungry. but his words hurts me deeply. sorry, my friends of mylot here. i am really very sad now and have no idea about what i should do next. i need yr advices badly, thanks.