is it easy to understand normal people?

I dont understand what you mena by 'normal' people everyone is normal! If I dont understand what people ar5e saying or why they have certain attitudes I ask then why. I dont find it hard, everyone is unique and has their own behaviour and communication techniques.

What is all this talk of a normal person!? I don't believe that I have encountered such a species before!

I think you're right. Sometimes people judge others by their appearance. I have a friend who looks snobby but is really kind. It's not so easy to understand other people---especially if you're not willing to. Like for instance, if you've already hated the person even before you had the chance to talk to him, how could you possibly like him right? It's not that easy. But if we're nice enough, people will react the same... Sometimes it depends on how we show ourselves...

No matter what you think everyones wan to be treat with love and respect :P I know i do! So just try and treat the person how you want to be treated heh :P If you really wanna understand / know them more just ask them questions about their personal life and you too ofcourse gotta share ur stories xD ... i dont know _ hah

I agree that the best way to understand people is to take some time to watch them and listen to them. Sometimes it is still very difficult to understand them. I recently went to a friend's birthday party. She is the most normal person I know. I usually hang out with people who are significantly not normal. Most of my friend's party was attended by normal people. I never know what to say to normal people so I usually just watch them. Toward the end of the party I was talking to another friend of mine, who is reletively not normal. It was a private conversation but someone next to me said, "You think too much." I usually get this from normal people because I generally over think most of my life. I got offended by this. I had been very careful around the normal people of the party. I only interacted with them the way they were interacting with me. Now when I had my own friend who already understood me, and we were having a private conversation, someone butted in with a judgement of the way I think. I have decided that if people can judge me then I can judge them in order to show them an example of the pain that they cause. While I will continue trying to understand normal people, I will expect the same amount of courtesy from them. If they say "You think too much." I am going to respond with "You think too little." It will offend them but then I can mention that my judgement of them was no worse than their judgement of me.