Do u really care whether ur wife is a virgin or not?

@Shooyao (156)
China
November 29, 2009 11:01pm CST
with the development of our society,there have an increasing people feel the virgin is not important.But frankly speaking,most people in developing country don't think so. How do u think obout it ,my friends in mylot?
7 responses
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
1 Dec 09
Personally it matters to me. but it is more of a bonus than a requirement because I'm not a virgin myself. A man has every right to expect that the woman he's going to marry is a virgin if he is also a virgin. Because if the man knows that he married a woman who is no longer a virgin then there's always a possibility that he'll get insecure in bed thinking that his wife may compare him to her other partners. but to those who are not virgins then it should not matter. Cheers!
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@yan_blue8 (1437)
• Philippines
30 Nov 09
Hi Shooyao! As being one of the most conservative country, its really important to be a virgin and you will only give your virginity to the man you marry. But culture changes once perception to that. If I am a man, I wouldn't care if my wife is still a virgin or not. It does not matter at all. For me, it's just a piece of meat anyway.
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@judelen (428)
• Philippines
24 Dec 09
Hello! For me virginity does not matter. It matters most, is the character of a person you'll be in the future. As long that you know well before you get married to avoid problems in the future. My advise here is that: Do not do such things if you are not ready and love each other. Think it twice!
3 Jan 10
i thinks its important - and beautiful - that a girl has something unque to give to her husband on her wedding night
30 Nov 09
I am a women. For me, I believe virginity in a women is very important. I believe that it is a special gift that you offer to your husband. On the other hand, A a women, I don't really care if my man is still a virgin or not, lol! Because I understand men's sexuality.
@verena (56)
• Indonesia
30 Nov 09
My boyfriend cares about it. So I always keep my self pure for him.
@chriszh22 (432)
• China
30 Nov 09
If you love her, you will never care about this. Ture love