Do You Believe that there Is Someone who is Really Meant For YOu?
By krystalheart
@krystalheart (842)
Philippines
11 responses
@pinay311 (20)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
I believe in soul mates, destiny and fate. There is someone out there for you and you will meet that person sooner or later. You just don't have to rush it because if you try to rush it you might end up with the wrong person. I believe that you'll meet the right person for you when you're not even looking for that person.
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@baretrees (46)
• Canada
2 Dec 09
i believe in destiny and no coincidences and i used to believe that someone is out there for me..but i am losing hope.and maybe i am meant to be alone....i have tried the 'stop looking' approach and he will come along..well i can only see that and wait for so long...i feel like i may be giving off a vibe that i have lost faith...is there some one for me..well he must be sleeping or busy ..cause he is no where in sight..and i am tired of meeting or sharing with a new guy and thinking is this the ONE.....
@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Hi baretress... don't give up your faith. To get inspired you can read inspiring stories of million people written at the book entitled Chicken Soap for the Soul "happily Ever After" edition or the book written by Hoshua Harris "I kissed dating Goodbye" and "Boy meets girl"...I was inspired by these books. They tackle stories like yours...
@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Like what I have mentioned above, we should not rush on things especially in finding our partner in life. We should take things slowly and always pray for God's guidance to lead our path to the right one.
@jenzai (388)
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
No, According to my friend which I do agree their is no such thing as meant to be. We all have a choice to find and accept someone in our lives. It's always been a choice of not to or to go into a relationship. Things happen because you decide it to happen, not destiny.
@jenzai (388)
• Philippines
5 Dec 09
Very well said, I do agree that we loose our faith when our human desires and wants is not fulfilled. Finding someone to be with for the rest of your life is gift coming from above. Thank you for the wishes and may your light shine brightly. God bless.
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@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
But if you believe and have faith... surely you will have that someone that you can called "my meant to be partner in life"... before anyone knows, God had already plan a future for us, a future not to harm us...but a future to prosper you (Jeremiah29:11) its is true that we have our own free will... but if we ask God for His guidance, He will direct us to the future He set for us. Sometimes, things go wrong because we decide on our own, but if we decide together with our faith to our Lord above... we will have that someone meant for us by God. Remember that God's thoughts and plans are higher than the thoughts and plans of any man. May you find the desire of your heart. God bless...
@becdmd (704)
• Philippines
1 Dec 09
before I used to believe in soulmates when I was in college...but not anymore...but I guess I do believe in destiny...we have someone out there for us if we have the desire in our heart to meet the special someone in our life. If we ask God, I'm sure He will give the desires of our heart and He will not fail us..all we have to do is to wait on His perfect timing..but of course, we must do our part for us to meet the One by improving ourselves and be more sociable with other people.
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@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Hi friend, well maybe not exactly sociable but let us not close our door in meeting new people. We must trust the Lord that someone out there is really meant for us in the right time. God knows what could be best for us, He will not give anything to us that will hurt nor destroy us. All we have to do is to keep believing.
@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
1 Dec 09
Hi Krystal. Yes I do. In fact, out of all the billions of people in our big world, I believe that are probably a number of right persons for each of us. Many have had a happy marriage and become widowed and gone on to meet another wonderful person for them...as an example:)
Karen
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@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
And yes that is definitely true PeacefulWmn9, I believe that out of all the billions of people there is really a magic that will unite a destined couple. Like what the song says "got to believe in magic, tell me how do people find each other in the world that's full of strangers."...
@agv0419 (3022)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
I believe it also they there's someone really meant for each and everyone. We only needs patience because we don't know when they going to come in our life. I agree that God going to bring us the right person that really destined for us. I hope it is also happened to me.
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@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Keep believing and have faith agv0419, in the right time God will give you the desire of your heart... more than what you expect... God's plan are greater than any plans of man. He knows what could be best for us, He just need our patience and faith. If we rush on things, we might fall to someone who is not really meant for us =(.
@soledadclickz (1106)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Hi. I do love watching "happily ever after" movies. But in real life, I don't think there are soulmates, destiny, or some other things that relate to it. I believe that whatever we will become in the future depends greatly on our past and current choices. Destiny for me is a matter of choice.
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@soledadclickz (1106)
• Philippines
3 Dec 09
Yes, I believe in God. And I always ask for his guidance every time I do my homework to come up with an informed judgment and to responsibly exercise the free will He has given me.
@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Hi, yes we have our own decision and we are free to choice what we want... but something unexplainable in this world can happen especially if you keep believing... believe and have faith in our Almighty Father, and sure you will have the desire of your heart.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
4 Jan 10
I really think so. The person may be there all a long. When you don't look you find.
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
7 Dec 09
I do believe it is when luck strikes and everything just goes smoothly free flowing then it is true love indeed with little contradiction. Partner would eventually find their future partner not just wait for them but it is necessary that they both want it for a lifetime.
@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
8 Dec 09
Yes it is necessary that both couple are willing to spend the rest of their life to each other. Like what the song lyrics says "got to believe in magic"... how two people find each other in the world that's full of strangers. Pray that God may lead you to the right one, and keep your faith always. Surely when you find the right one, you'll tell yourself that you are really meant for each other.
@andy77e (5156)
• United States
4 Dec 09
No I do not. I believe that it's possible for two people two choose to make themselves for each other. But I do not believe that everyone has an invisible stamp on the back of their head with the name of a "special someone" that they were meant for. That would make me a bit sad to think there was someone out there waiting for me, when I have no intention of finding them.
@sublime03 (2339)
• Philippines
1 Dec 09
I believe that each person has a destined loved one out there waiting for that moment. God has destined us to be with someone if we only wait for the right time and God will bring you together. You will definitely not expect that special someone. If you trust in Him, He will definitely show you your destined partner.
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@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
1 Dec 09
Hi sublime03, I agree with you... We should always keep the faith. We should not rush on things, we must think for it a thousand times and always seek God's guidance. I believe that God's plan are better than our own thoughts. We must believe and wait for the right time.
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
1 Dec 09
Hi krystalheart,Yes,i do believe that there is someone for us who really meant for each other. I am not sure if it's detiny or soul mate .what i am sure is God prepare some one, for us to be our partners in life.Thanks,God Bless!
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@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
1 Dec 09
Hi Hazelrose, I believe in what you've just said that God knows what's best for each one of us, and thus, He prepares someone for us to be our lifetime partner. Some people are unsuccessful in finding their right one maybe because they don't seek God's grace and guidance in finding their partner.