I'd like to know from you guys....
@Zaphan (710)
Philippines
December 1, 2009 7:51am CST
What do you usually feel when your all alone?? do you like to be all alone or to be with someone??? especially in your moods... if you have problem or something that bothers you?
7 responses
@chriszh22 (432)
• China
2 Dec 09
I would make a plan to go through the lonely times, like keeping busy with houseworks, enjoy a movie, a book or a cup of tea, some sunshine and out doors. You can do whatever you want when alone. Plan something to do when alone if you feel lonely.
@Zaphan (710)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
but planning sometimes never end up on doing it but instead awkward of it. I am not good in planning things, I do what ever crosses my mind that I think will make me happy and accept the consequences. A happy go lucky.
@chriszh22 (432)
• China
3 Dec 09
Hehe, you like like my wife, hate to do thing by planning. Just enjoy yourself is good!
@ishme4nowz (679)
• United States
1 Dec 09
Most of the times, when I'm alone, I feel calm and relaxed. For me personally, I like having a lot of time to myself because I get to think about whatever it is I want and I get to "set the pace" for my life in that small moment. I can do what it is I want, when I want to, but of course, for only that moment. I like both being alone and being with someone but it really depends on my mood and how I feel that day. If I had a problem and something was bothering me, I would most likely want to be alone so I have some time to think about it, then later I would tell someone about it and ask them for some advice or some input.
@Zaphan (710)
• Philippines
1 Dec 09
nice! do you know how to meditate??? that is what I want to learn to refresh me always.. they says that meditation has a good effect on our mind and body.. what things do you usually think when you're alone?
@ishme4nowz (679)
• United States
1 Dec 09
Haha, no I don't know how to meditate. I've tried before but it takes a while to get use to because for me, I have so many thoughts running through my head it's hard for me to completely let go. When I'm alone, I like to just think about my life; where I'm at and where I'm going. I also like to look at what I have, everything that was given to me, and be thankful for it all.
@becdmd (704)
• Philippines
1 Dec 09
depends on my mood...most of the time i feel free when I'm alone no one to bother me..but most of the time i am bored and lonely because I don't have someone to talk to about my day or share my experiences or thoughts...For I believe in the saying that "no man is an island"
@Zaphan (710)
• Philippines
1 Dec 09
yeah that's the point you'' get bored... but when I am mad or being not in a mood I like to be alone to have a peace of mind.
@Zaphan (710)
• Philippines
1 Dec 09
hehehe! it's fun to have somebody to talk and laugh to.. but when you are alone with your girlfriend what would you feel????:))
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
I don't really share my thoughts to anyone. Spending time alone helps me think clearly. I would prefer to be with some friends if i;m in a good mood since chances are i may ruin their day because of my mood. besides loneliness is contagious, i would rather keep it to myself that ruining other's days. Cheers!
@Zaphan (710)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
wow your a good friend! you think about them instead of yourself! what do you usually think when your alone?
@fantasticbabe (981)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
i like to be with myself when i feel sad and angry when i feel good i like to meet a lot of people go to the parties and enjoy life.
@Wizzywig (7847)
•
1 Dec 09
Sometimes its really good to be alone with your own thoughts and I often feel a sense of relief that I'm "free" to be/feel/say whatever I want. I really like driving home after a late shift for the 'peace'. I like to get up early in the morning and drive off to somewhere quiet just to be alone. Having said that, I do enjoy interacting with others a lot and would hate to be stuck in some little office never seeing anyone during a working day.
@Zaphan (710)
• Philippines
1 Dec 09
yeah sometimes it's good to be alone but not always cause you'll feel anxiety. I am always alone here in my home! my family is away so for me it's hard to be alone always though sometime it's a nice way to have peace.
