It's really hurt to be broken hearted...
By Premods
@mods196621 (3652)
Philippines
December 1, 2009 10:24am CST
Did you feel the pain of being broken hearted? How do you cope in this situations or feeling of emotions? I've been in this stage and I know the pain is too much.. When you love, the volume of love you gave to that person is the equal volume of pain you got when you out of his love. And it was the result to break our heart. How painful but that's life... we have to move on...
Please share with us your feelings friends..
Thanks and have a nice day!
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13 responses
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
2 Dec 09
Being hurt from love is really a very painful experience for just about anyone. I have had my fair share of love hurt moments too and the only pain I could think of was the love lost. But what they say is really true; time is the only healing process and with time, the love that was so painful last time proved to be just a flicker of my memory now. I can be hurt 10 times and more before, but if you ask me now, it has made me into a better person. Very good topic here.
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@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Thanks that you like my topic. It's being good for you that you'll became a better person despite all your hurts in life. You did it as positive and I'm sure you'll be more than happy now. I like your manner of thinking my friend.. Thanks to your response and have a nice day!
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@mizzk1 (56)
• United States
9 Dec 09
being heart broken is something really hard to get over especially if you was in love with this person. But its just something that you have to realize that life still goes on! You can't spend your whole life being heartbroken. I just look at it as maybe that person wasn't the right one for you and there is someone else. I know it really hurts especially when you gave that person your all and you feel like now you have nothin!!!
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
18 Dec 09
You really are right my friend. To be heart broken is hurting us to much and it cause too much pain inside me. I don't want to happen again this thing to me. Now i need to move on and forget those bad days in me. Thank you so much my friend and have a nice day!
@blessing2u (496)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
I have felt the pain of being heartbroken because of the opposite gender. That happened many years ago when I was still a teenager. The pain was so strong that I thought I would not live another day. Yet I am thankful that in spite of what had happened, I can say that I survived.
I have learned that when we are in love with someone, especially to people, we should leave some percentage of love in us so that when the worst happens where the object of our love leaves us, at least we have something left to start over with. I have known one that is the king of broken heart. He can always mend any kind of broken heart. His name is Jesus Christ. Do you have Him in your heart?
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@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Yes. I have Him in my heart always and I never leave Him. In terms of falling in love to a guy that makes my heart broken, I almost die in pain. Yes, it was really hurt and I feel angry, why it was happened to me. When it comes to giving my heart and love, I gave it all to whom I love and no one left to me that is why I felt so hurt this way. And yes you're right, that we need to have the percentage remain to ourselves so that we have the rise to up again. Don't give it all. But with Jesus we have to give all a 100%.
Thank you for your response and have a nice day friend!
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
1 Dec 09
hello mods,
I do believe that's part of life, the first one is not always the last or the best one, the best is always the last or in the middle. i can understand when there's a situation where it's hard to move on as you feel you wanted to hold on to that feeling but instead you have to end it as that person ended the relationship. well, we grow mature and become more independent for our future relationships.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Yes friend I do believed you. I'm on the processed already and i hope i will be moving on but i know i will. Thanks for your response my friend have a nice day to you!
@Torrs13 (217)
• United States
1 Dec 09
Getting your heart broken is always hard, especially when someone cheats on you. I've had my heart broken quite a few times, but I always move on and tell myself that there is so much better out there. I write my feelings in journal every night, so that helps sometimes, and I used to go out with my friends and go bowling when something like this happened. It helped me to relieve anger and stress because I got to throw a heavy ball at a bunch of pins.
The next day always seems to be the worst, so I just tried to keep busy so that I couldn't think about it too much. When you're busy, it's easier to move on and get over what happened.
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@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Yes you are right! And that is what I exactly doing when I feel that heavy inside my heart. It was like a heavy pinball of bowling I carried always that I need also to throw over the pins, hehe. As we have said we need to move on because we have life to carry on.
Thank you my friend for your response and have a nice day to you!
@TierrasMommy (125)
• United States
1 Dec 09
I have felt the pain of being broken hearted but eventually over time did I heal. It just left me with depression and later other health problems I personally believe you can die from a broken heart. Thats why I tend to keep my relationships close and few to avoid the heartache and of course all the drama in todays world just goes to show you how much of a coward I am.
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@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Yes my friend we always have a tendency to fall into sickness, stress and depression if we are in this situations of broken heartedness. And we often think is to avoid another relationship. And you are right that it will heal in the right time. And when hat comes another hope and love will rise. Thank you for your response my friend and have nice day!
@beatrizguiselle (1118)
• Spain
1 Dec 09
Ohh dear, yes! it hurts like a "ยท$%&"$ lol, but like you say we all have to move on, I believe things happen for a reason, and maybe it just wasnt meant to be. Hopefully you can overcome this.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Have a pleasant day to you! Yes it was, how i wish hat i could not have heart to be broken... lol! But that was before my dear.. now im fine a little bit.. Thanks for your response my friend.
@lologirl2021 (5542)
• United States
1 Dec 09
I will share about a past relationship.
For two years i was in a relationship and not knowing exactly what he was doing all the time. He would say he was giong to a friensd house then i would drive by his friends house and he wasn't even their and that would annoy me alot and i would say i drove by your friensd house and your truck wasn't their he would say something like they went out for a bite to eat or went to the bar. Then i would ask his friend if he was even their the day he said he was going their and he would say NO. Their for he was lieing constantly and i couldn't stand it.
One day came and my freinds saw him out at a club with some other girl and that was when i had enough this past may and ended things with him.
Now i am in a relationship and having the best time of my life and enjoying life to the best i can enjoy it.
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@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
How really sad that experienced you had before because that is exactly turning left while you're with him. And if I could in your place, I will do the same as you did friend. And thanks that you will not with him anymore. Now I wish you're good standing relationship with your new found love and happy that you 'll happy. Thanks for the response and Have a nice day!
@royirawan (66)
• Singapore
1 Dec 09
I did also. All people have ever felt it. So do not be sorrow...
I loved my ex-gf long time ago. But she asked to broke up suddenly. She said I'm childish. I really love her.
I could accept both her goodness and weakness. But She only accept the good things of me, but not my weakness. That's so bad...!!!
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@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
I feel the same as you. If she really loves you she need to accept the good and the bad things in you as you are. In love there is no questions of what and why. The important is i love the person what ever he is. Well your next girl will be lucky to you my friend. And wait for that! Thanks for your response and have a nice day!
@EmtMom (27)
• United States
2 Dec 09
We recently found out my mother was having an affair for 6 months. Even though I am an adult and no longer even live with my parents, it still hurts me. My parents have been married for over 35 years and this was a crazy blow to the whole family. Just stick in there, everything works out. It might take me a very very very long time to trust my mother ever again but, at least she's moved out and is staying out of our way for now.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
3 Dec 09
You know it makes a big effect to one's family if we discover that our mother had an affair to other man. With a long time of savings their marriage and yet we discover their affair so it's natural to react negatively. Well to your mother maybe she is the only one knows what is going on behind her being a wife and a mother.
Thank you to your response and have a nice day!
@acer5540 (354)
• China
2 Dec 09
When i was too young to falling in love with someone, i called the feeling that not past the exam is brokken hearted.
Now, i jsut marriaged, i'm happay with my husband,i feel i love him every much, and sometimes i even afraid of losing him. It made me upset.I can't image if one day he come to say" i don't love you now..." How should i do.Though i don't feel this pain of being hroken hearted really, i can feel it indeed.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Good to know that your happy with your husband. And to be happy with him is enough to know that you'll successful on your love life. When your husband tells you someday that he don't love you, well that was the start of your painful career.. But let us pray it will not happen into your married life.
Thanks for your response and have a nice day friend! Welcome to mylot!
@fantasticbabe (981)
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
That really hard to forget break up when you feel so serious they are hard to forget. although it is painful one need to know the art of letting go and continue to move on with your life.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
Yes you're right about that my friend. If we have a serious relationship it was really hard to forget when we had a breakup with our partners. What i said recently is the equal amount of love we give is the equal pain we get when we're heartbroken. Well, thanks to your response and have a nice day friend!
@Albert1989 (372)
• Malaysia
31 Jul 10
A broken heart, you think you will never get over him, and you would rather put aside the immense pain?? WRONG!!!!!!!!! Because this pain sees to it that your broken heart heals and that you can love again.
When i faced this situation last time, i will get myself a cup of coffee or go on a long walk. I will express my emotions in a way that comes naturally. I will write in a journal, paint, sculpt or play music. I will also do daily cardiovascular exercise
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I will go visit friends or go back home to my roots. A change of environment does wonders for the spirit. I will put everything that reminds me of my ex in a box and seal it. Throw it away, donate it to charity or ask a friend to hold on to it indefinitely.
Thats what i did last time. Kinda stupid but it works on me.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
2 Aug 10
Good job! and well done properly friend.. That is nice and positive outlook in losing someone love. And coping from the pain as I said has been coped by you as doing it in the right time and place. And to inlove again is a nice feelings. Then next time when to get broken heart again doing this is a big help... thanks to you and have a nice day friend!