Do you have patience in waiting?

@mobhomeir (7558)
Philippines
December 1, 2009 5:07pm CST
Hello once again my friends, I am just curious to know how will you hold your time waiting. Yes, as for me, I think I can wait a little bit longer from what we've been arranged (time) provided that the concern party would really come. As what I observe there were lots of people that has no patience in waiting. Are you one of them? Let's talk about your stand on this.... Thanks. Mobhomeir...
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@ced_cap (207)
• Philippines
3 Dec 09
hi mobhomeir...my patience is long. but sometimes it just pisses me off when other don't respect my time. i mean i'm always on time. why can't others be on time? you know...
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
3 Dec 09
Yeah I got your point...I think you're very strict when it comes to appointments. Well, I think it should be fair as what you mean..i will remember that..thanks for responding...
@ced_cap (207)
• Philippines
3 Dec 09
you're welcome my co-mylotter...have a nice day to you...
• Boston, Massachusetts
2 Dec 09
Hi Mobhomier, Before, "WAITING" is one of the words and actions that i hate so much. But this time i was able to manage such feeling. Waiting is part of life and there will always be time that you need to "wait". So instead of stressing myself out while waiting, i do productive things like crocheting, listening to music, reading magazines, humming a song, and taking a nap. Stress-free, relaxing and productive right?
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Hello my friend. Yeah you're right. In what you said I agree but it depends if I don't have another scheduled time after. Well, we have different attitude on our waiting moments..well, I respected yours..thanks for responding...
• Boston, Massachusetts
3 Dec 09
i agree with you. it depends upon the situation. if you have another schedule next to the recent one-- coming over for the scheduled time is a must. But again an allowance time must be taken into consideration. Thanks for respecting my views.
@aditya540 (328)
• India
2 Dec 09
Earlier I dont know the spelling of it..!! Now due to this recession effect my life has changed and this hectic joblessness has forced me to acquiant this quality
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
I understand that my friend...that's another kind of waiting that we would force to really wait and hope positively...thanks for responding my friend...
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
7 Dec 09
Hello amigo, Sorry for this delayed reply(ugh!!!! too much busyness) Well,depending on the person whom i waiting(ahaha) If it is worth the wait,then YES...i will wait. But,if it is not worth it...Sorry...i'm not very patient with waiting someone who's not punctual(huh) Becoz,i always come in time....that is why i hate waiting. Unless it is you my amigo...just don't keep me waiting for ages (hahaha)
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
7 Dec 09
Hello mi bonita mia...I miss you a lot... nice to be back again here...Good night and take care always....Mobhomier
4 Dec 09
yes there are some persons who have a little patience on waiting.. but me, i can wait twice or thrice the time. but for a valid reasons anyway. i can tolerate hours of waiting..
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
4 Dec 09
Oh I appreciate that my friend...thanks for responding
@DaMan92 (21)
• United States
2 Dec 09
usually I have alot of patience but sometimes i Get angry when people take too long
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Thanks for responding my friend...me also waiting would be so frustrating and irritating especially if the person would not really come...be patience then...
@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
2 Dec 09
Frankly speaking, I hate waiting. This would be the worst thing I would ever like to do in my life be it anyone or anything. However, I will agree that I have a lot of patience in waiting. Infact, I should not be boasting, but I do bhave some patience to bear things happening around. If obliged, I can wait. For example, Right now, while I am posting a response over here, I amw aiting for a call from one of my friends whom I have to meet in another half an hour. Perhaps, that gives me some good reason to be here. But as i said, waiting would be the last thing I would do on this earth
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Yeah I understand that my friend. They said Patience is Virtue..and you have that. Thanks for responding...
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@mindrich (183)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Hmmm, I have the patience to wait "kuya" as long as I'm invited with the party...hehehe. Anyway, patience is virtue.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Yeah my brother, that's another excitement if our waiting moment would ends to a party...he he he he I don't care waiting as long as the party is sure to be there..thanks bro for your respond...
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
2 Dec 09
Hi mobhomeir, Yes, I am one of them, if somebody promised to come for a particular time then didn't turn in I may get very angry. I don’t have patience, what to do. But when the person comes I may ask that what happened, how long I am waiting etc etc.. and may try my best to relax and not to show my anger. Otherwise I may make call in between and find out what is wrong with them.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
I got your point my friend Sreekala. At least I know who you are in terms of waiting situation. I'll put that in my mind from now on. Who knows maybe someday I could have an appointment or an having an eyeball with. I will really see to it that a day before the time we scheduled I would be there already...yes ma'm I promisethanks for your respond anyway..
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
2 Dec 09
I'm actually pretty patient as long as I haven't cut myself short on time. I try to always allow plenty of time between here and there when I go shopping. I never expect to get in and out of the doctors office either. I think if we prepare ourselves..we can control our patience a little more.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Well said my friend...I admire your waiting attitude...thanks for responding..
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
most of the time is NO, but it is still negotiable..lol.. well, i am very particular about time management, i dont want to be late myself, but if there are valid reasons,well i can wait but if it is just tardiness, hmp!but i honestly respect and appreciate people who are naturally patient in waiting..
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
That's right my friend..it depends on the what kind of waiting we would have. Well, there are also lots of people who really has patience in waiting and I really admire them...thanks for responding..
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
2 Dec 09
I have always been a patient waiter. Even as a child I had more patience than most grown ups I knew. It's just the way I am I guess.
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Ohh I admire you for that...I guess you have a good attitude in terms of waiting situation...other said Patience is Virtue..would agree with that? Thanks for responding...
@neelimaravi (1793)
• India
2 Dec 09
hi mobhomeir, yeah, i am very much patience person... if i have to to get the things, definitly i will wait until i got.. what ever it is.. everbody told me what a patience person you are...if we are not much patience, then we cann't achieve anything. this is my opinion, thankyou for your nice topic, have a good day.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
"everybody told me what a patience person you are.." this is so intriguing phrase Neelimaravi..I guess you already knew me..well, anyway, thanks for responding..hope to read more also on your topics to come....have a good day ahead.. mobhomeir..
@zoetao (4)
• China
2 Dec 09
Hi!As well know,I think most of people hate waiting.but it depends on the situation. If it is an important thing or person and you must be have patience . If yor are a hothead person,maybe waiting will help you improve your mind and strong character.
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Hello zoetao, you're right in your statement. But for me it depends on the situation. Like, I can extend waiting as long as there would be no other time after that time scheduled...thanks for responding...and welcome anyway to mylot...hope to read more your topics...
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
1 Dec 09
I really don't like to wait, but the last couple of years I have had to wait and so I am used to it now. It doesn't bother me anymore
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Hello winterose, I understand you have more patience now compared before I don't know the reason why but maybe because of some experience in your past waiting-moments. Well, I am just guessing. Thanks anyway for responding...God BLess...
@uicbear (1900)
• United States
1 Dec 09
As long as I don't have to be anywhere in particular at a set time, i am usually pretty patient. Every once in a while, though, when I am waiting in a line and I see other lines moving way faster, I will find myself getting a bit anxious. It's at this time that I have to remind myself that I really don't have to be anywhere and just to relax. If I am waiting for someone, as long as I have an approximate time, or they let me know that they are running behind, or on their way, I don't lose my patience.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Hello uicbear good day. Yes like you, I think we have attitude in waiting as long as there's no other appointment next on that time I can extend an hour but not beyond that. Well, it depends upon the situation...thanks for responding...
@dagma09 (90)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
hi!!! good morning! when it comes to me I can wait for someone for a longer period.what makes me get irritated is that when that someone already with me and he/she's doing something(make-up or chatting) that we cant go to what ever we are about to do ... this is specially when I'm or where are meeting someone because I dont want to be late. I always see to it that I;m always on time,,, but I do admit that there are times that I also get late for a valid reason... I rather prefer to wait than be late... thats all ... thanks.... have a nice day!!!
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Yes dagma I for your point...that's right in what you said that would really irritating on my part if I were you...thanks for responding..and Have a nice day ahead...
@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
2 Dec 09
I am usually on time but I have to wait for my friends who are always late. Of course not all of them, but most. I am used to having to wait for someone, so I guess I have a lot of patience. If I get ready or whatever a little late, figuring whoever I am meeting will be late, they are on time.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Hello cerebellum I admire you for that waiting attitude of yours...thanks for responding...
@bounce58 (17385)
• Canada
1 Dec 09
No not me! I am the most impatient person I know. My mind is always racing, and I like to multi-task. I don't like sitting around. It doesn't mean I like doing something productive, I just don't like waiting. Even here at work, I have a small seconds-counter at the corner of my desktop, that counts down the time I could get off work.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Hello bounce good day..yes..I understand there are lots of people like you that their time are so precious..that's right and you're maybe one of them...you're a time-particular one...thanks for the respond..
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Hi. I would say it's a case to case basis. I could certainly wait for my doctors and family members even longer than an hour or two. But with friends and subordinates, I don't think I'll have that much patience...unless of course, they have valid reasons for being late. I seldom get late on my appointments. I always come at least five to ten minutes ahead of the scheduled time. That is how I respect the time of other people. Most of the time, it's inevitable to wait for other people. I always bring a book or a magazine just to kill some waiting time.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Dec 09
Honestly soledad I am not like you. More often than not I was always late on my appointments but not on a very special one..I admire for that attitude..keep it up..thanks for responding...