Will you love him/her if he/she gets AIDs?
By pandachina
@pandachina (30)
China
December 1, 2009 8:13pm CST
Mike was striken by AIDs when he had blood transfusion in the hospital. He was nettled and he didn't know how to reveal it to his girlfriend. Afterwards, he thought at least he didn't get infected for cheating her. So he told frankly to his girlfriend that he got infected. This is was a great shock to his girlfriend and she had no idea how to get along with the infected boyfriend.
If you were Mike, how do you inform your girlfriend the infection?
If you were his girlfriend, how do you relate to your boyfriend? Will you persist or dump him?
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13 responses
@tony4u (47)
• Nigeria
2 Dec 09
what is the need of dummping him hence he did not cheat. you should comfort him. realising that he did not give it to you but told you.
@azazel87 (97)
• Bulgaria
2 Dec 09
If he gets AIDS I will love him even more. He is everything for me. Every single day with him is one miracle. Life is short, everyday may be our last day. With AIDS or without we have to live every single day like it is our last day. Your boyfriend may gets AIDS and if you left him, what? You will find another, and next one will have physics problems or psychically problems, next one wont have money, and next one will have lover... everyone couple have so much problems but if love is real no meter how big they are everything will be ok.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
2 Dec 09
I think Mike did the right thing by coming clean.Bottom line, he didnt do anything wrong. If I were Mike's girlfriend, it depends, did they just start seeing each other? If it was anew relationship, I would probably not stay. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years so yes I would stay.
@letssstalk (285)
• India
2 Dec 09
Hello China
Very hard to decide what to do?.. We dont have idea what really infected people feel.
If this tradegdy happen with me,honestly i tell my bf that i am infected beacuse whom we love trully his/her life is more precious for us, next what he decide i accepte it.
and if he , hard to beleive for you BUt really ......... i ask him that i still love him and love to live with him not only this, i should also ask him that give me his infection too because i want to feel his pain, wana to live with him and die with him.
take care
@ziyadahinc212 (552)
• United States
2 Dec 09
First question; YES I"D TELL HER QUICKLY so that her brother, father, uncle, etc don't get it in their heads to speed-up my departure from this world! Secondly, I would want HER to be there for ME so much as she could be (and vise versa)but, our physical relationship would have to end. I'm married so if my wife or I were infected then yes I would be with her till the end. Tell Mike I said stay a strong/healthy fighter till the end!!!
@deniser28 (30)
• United States
2 Dec 09
For Mike I would say that is a lawsuit in the making. He would just have to sit his girlfriend down and tell her the truth. If she truly loves him and feels she can handle the strain then she'll stick around. If not then she'll break it off with him. It's easier to break up with someone when you're just dating. If they were married it would totally be a different story. By dating him, she hasn't quite committed herself to the sickness and health or for better or worse so there's nothing holding her down from leaving. The only thing she would have is love and that would have to be strong enought to make her stay.
@lindiebiz (1006)
• Canada
2 Dec 09
It is really unfortunate that where a person is supposed to be treated, he gets sick, these issues should be addressed in addition to others on Worlds Aids Day's. He did the right thing by telling her what happened to him, if he loves her, he should protected her because it is not her fault. If I am his girlfriend I will not dump him, I would try my best to be there for him although would not sleep with him.
@abhikmjmdr (779)
• India
2 Dec 09
What has getting infected got to do with loving someone? If a family member gets some disease do we stop loving her or dump her? The person you were referring to got AIDS for no fault of his , so why should he be treated as some untouchable and not loved like a normal human being?
@riribhakti (136)
• Indonesia
2 Dec 09
hai pandacina,
if i have a boy friend who gets aids. i am not hate him. but i still love him and try to support him until his time come.
@alilin28 (1527)
• Uruguay
2 Dec 09
hi pandachina, if i were the girlfriend, i would like to stay with him becuase is not a thing that he searched,, obviously, first of all, i think that mike must inform his girlfriend because i think that in relationship musnt be lies,, nowday, there are a lot of ways to prevent her to doesnt catch the ilness. i think that the truth win in this case..
@Josflch (93)
• Malaysia
2 Dec 09
First of all I am a guy and I will told her if I was infected. It is unfair for her if not tell her the true. Whether is she accept or not she have the right to know. Tell her directly, be honest always is the key of one relationship. I understand that if I fall into the same situation, I might also have the difficulty to tell her. Write a letter might a good idea.
If my girl friend is infected, I think I will support her. I know she need my support. This not her false. Not by cheating.
However this only my personal opinion. Hope your friend health aways and have a nice day to you.
@vakaneelima89 (2)
• India
2 Dec 09
Hai... If i am mike then i'll say strightly to my girl friend directly about the desease i got through blood transformation and i move away from her.
If iam the mike's girlfriend, i'll give support to him, I'll never neglict him, i behave with him as i behave with him previous. But frankly i dont marry him because love belongs to two persons but marriage combines two families. My parents doesnt accept. As a human i dont hate him. He didnt made any mistake but he got it through the blood transformation only na..............