Do U Mine Apologising to Wrap up the Fight or an Argument with your Partner

Apologizing - Would you mind to apologize first to calm an issue
@sunnycool (12714)
India
December 2, 2009 11:41am CST
Definitely i wouldn't mine to be the first one to apologize to calm an Issue or an argument.In my college days(untill last year) i used to be really bad tempered.if I had any argument with any one or any tiff i would end up beating them like anything. I have changed a lot since last year to a Good,humble,Lovable person(Girls You Can Propose Me Now). As many of the Mylotters are married ones so would you be the first one to apologize if you had an argument with your Partner. How about you Singles do you mine to say sorry to wrap an issue with an friend or go for a fight?
5 responses
• Boston, Massachusetts
4 Dec 09
Hi Sunny, As i matured pride is not an issue for me and apologizing first is easy for me this time. WE don't fight. WE only have misunderstanding, cold war but is easily resolved because both of us is willing to be the first to say sorry. WE love each other so much, understand and accept one another's mood.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
4 Dec 09
So all the couples should learn from you so that they do not quarrel for silly issues or atleast learn some tips for an happy living with their partners in their lives.gud day.
• Boston, Massachusetts
4 Dec 09
if given the chance i love sharing my experience in maintaining a cool husband-wife relationship. love over powers pride and anger. nothing is impossible with love.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
5 Dec 09
Then why dont you come up with a nice blog MSF so that you can share some valuable experiences for an happy life with partners.
@GemLou (12)
3 Dec 09
I don't mind apologising as I don't like to leave arguements too long as it upsets me in the end. I often go away to calm down and think about it then come back to apologise - that way you've both had a chance to think it through.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
4 Dec 09
that's an good practice GemLou rather than taking the argument long we can cut short which would be better for both of the partners else its pretty difficult to stop the fight if both keep on complaining and pointing each others mistakes.Thank you for responding GemLou and Welcome to Mylot.gud day.
@GemLou (12)
4 Dec 09
I tend to find that I can hold an arguement for a while, while I'm mad but after a while I turn the other way and get really upset - I don't like arguing with people. Leaving the argument helps both of you calm down or even feel bad and want to apologise Thanks for the welcome :-)
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
2 Dec 09
hi, if i am wrong then I dont mind to say sorry but if he is wrong then he has to do it frist. for me, I dont need apology to make up thing but I need the truth and the real action to prove what he can't and can do for me about this matter. I can see a guy love to apologie to a girl to make her feels comfortable and make up everything right? and all the sudden he still remain the same... lolz.. How sure you are a good man? lolz... seem like you want the girl to propose to you? lolz.... wow wonderful idea you got here, I like it. this part of good man of you... can't tell the real truth color of you yet, so for me "Im sorry, can't propose to you" lol.... just kidding with you. have a good day
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
3 Dec 09
Hi smileonstar,All you girls love to get Apologized by guyz ha so you get some precious gifts in this process too.I was just kidding girl i am not really into online Love making so i just added as an Affirmative who knows some one might get interested .But you disappointed me It dont go by anyone online coz we actually dont know how he would be in his real life so a big NO to finding my Love online. Thank you for responding.gud day.
@kafueenu (1073)
• Philippines
3 Dec 09
Sometimes when its just small stuff, I'd be the one to apologize even if its not my fault, just to end the discussion haha. I really hate long stressful talks and fights, I want it ended quickly. But when the blame is really on him, I'll wait for him to apologize and admit he is wrong, but not by arguing, but by giving silent treatment, I hate noise and blabbering haha.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
4 Dec 09
hi Kafueenu so you believe Non-violence and do you think being calm would work with all couples coz those couples who lack trust might misunderstand them to be Egoist coz they are not coming forward with an sorry rather expecting one from their partners. Thank you for responding.gud day.
• India
3 Dec 09
Yes I or my partner do apologise to stop problems escalating and getting out of hand.Generally it works out and the argument does not carry on.But I do not like to apologise when the fault is not mine and then my partner has to apologise and not me.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
3 Dec 09
i dont think if there is anything bad to apologize even though mistake is with your partner which would never give any way for the argument to crawl in between you both.thank you for responding.gud day.