What are the two questions you would ask if your partner cheated on you ?

I was cheated many times by my previous relationships. And when i found it out, I never ask any questions and I never talked to them anymore. Knowing that they cheated on me is enough to know that he doesn't love me and respect me. I don't care about how long it is going on and who is the third one. I will just accept that i had met a trash and love him and now he is going back to garbage where he belongs.

Same with vonmac, I would ask why he did it. I would get your first reason. I would ask who is that person. And leave him by then

If my husband cheated on me I think there is only one question I would ask him. The question is: 1. Are you not afraid of the consequence this sin will bring unto you? Well adultery is certainly a sin and every sin has consequence and punishment. Anyone who commits sin will not go unpunished so my husband being a Christian should know this. So if ever he still did commit this sin I would ask him the above question. I need not know why he did this sin because certainly it is his fault and not mine.It is the sin of his flesh of course and he allowed the devil to overcome him. I also would not want to know who is the woman because I have no interest in knowing her at all. I also would not know how long the affair has been going because that would hurt me all the more. All I want to know is if my husband is not afraid of the consequence of his sin because if he is not I think I would tell him so that he can make up his mind before it it becomes too late for him to repent and mend his ways.

There is not much that hurts more than betrayal. If my partner cheated on me I don’t know how I would react...I guess it is one of those things that you will never know how you would behave until it happens to you. One thing is for sure though I would feel so very hurt and devastated. The two questions I would ask are: 1) Why did you do it? 2) Was she worth it? I don’t know if he would be able to earn my trust again. He would have to work pretty hard at it I would imagine.

I do not subscribe to this type of behaviour in no form because I personally think that if you are in a committed relationship cheating is out the question. I will ask only ONE question Now that you have reveal this to me what do you want/ expect me to do? I will then point out my stance on the matter and tell him to go to that relationship and there would not be any question of cheat again because he would have been with the person he is most satified with. He has betrayed my trust so itis best to move on and in peace. This may sound hard but tha's how I am.

I've had this happen and I think the first two questions I asked were: 1. Why did you do it? 2. Who was it? I tend to ask more than two questions when this happens. Some people don't like hearing details, but I do because I want to know exactly what happened. There is no excuse for cheating at all. I don't understand why people do it.

It depends . if it were my husband. I wouldn't ask anything. It is his private life and being maried to me, he would Ned a private life. If it were my boyfriend and we lived together, i would ask , do you want me to move out or will you move out? I obviously am not enough for him and he wants her/him? So why stay together?

I think the first question I would ask them, is why, they did that to me to begin with. I would also ask them who they were with also and what makes them so much better than me, to have to cheat on me like that instead of leaving me first.

only two questions? Ok... Who? How long did you see each other? and i gotta say... is it going to continue to happen?

Unfortunately what you dont know can kill you. What with all the VD's that are out there. I think my 2 questions would be... 1.How soon can you be outta my life? 2.Can you loose my number?

My 2 questions, WHAT IN THE HELL DO U THINK U ARE DOING & WHO IN THE HELL DO U THINK U ARE. i DON'T THINK PEOPLE HAVE A RIGHT TO DO U THAT WAY.

I agree with what a lot of people have said here. I would want to know WHY and then FOR HOW LONG. Who isn't an issue because the trust is already gone. Why I think would kill me more then how long because that is a direct reflection on us as a partner. We can't be everything for any one person, this I know. Even if this person has whatever problem they have that would do this, I would still feel bad about myself because why did they feel they needed to in the first place.

hmmm i think that the first question that would ask hear is that did you like making (s...) whit him and if she says yes i wold like to make it a 3 in a row whit hear and that guy and after i wold dump hear :P

For me, first I'd ask myself whether I still love him enough to forgive him. Then my questions to him will depend on the answer. If I still love him, I'd ask him 'why did he do it?' and 'who would he choose to be with him in the end'. I think if I still love him and he still want to be with me then I'll forgive him. Who knows that it might be partly my mistake that he cheated. But if I don't love him anymore I'll ask 'who' and 'why' and dang! Bye bye to him.

I agree with the rest of the Mylotters here and my two questions would be: 1) Why? 2) How long has this been going on. The first question would obviously get the reason and the second one will just make me know what an idiot I was for trusting him so long, when i shouldn't.

1) Why you did it? 2) Why are you still here? I think that's it. I'm a stubborn person and I won't buy any excuses I will get. So one excuse is enough and that's my first question. Second question is closing out the deal and preventing more excuses. Haha. shadow41

first thing, is inl my life i have no partner and i dont 2 make anyone to be partner in my life. because i think love can not go too long. if i have 2 ask que from my cheated lover or partner then frankly says i dont ask anyhting to her /him. because if i m rite, i dont wan 2 ask anything , if he/she is wrong i wait he/ she comes start discussion wid me regarding dat. if the matter is serious then i m first who gave him better dose in his/ her own way he cheates me. because i never hurt people wenever some1 hurts me first. and about 2 question , i dont wan 2 ask any two question because jisko ana hia aye , jana hai jaye.

The questions you mentioned would have been one of the first 5 on my list. It just makes sense that I get to know who I have to watch out for, next time ;p But then again, I would ask how the cheating came around first, knowing myself, if I really love that person, I would have felt the betrayal coming. Secondly, I would ask about the comfortable zone part, how easy the process may have been or how far it has gone. It would be a relief to know how unworthy the guy I have lost is.

1-why/who?? 2-How long?? They are gonna lie anyway.. They will not respond with the truth... Some DONT even respond... Which makes it worse...