People are SO inconsiderate!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@RyanneD (186)
United States
December 2, 2009 1:26pm CST
Okay, so the other day I pull into a Wal-Mart parking lot. Now, I already HATE going to Wal-Mart because I feel that people just turn inton a$$holes when they go into that store. They run into you and never say excuse me or even act like you're there!!!! Even the employees are like that!!! Anyway.... I'm patiently waiting behind a woman who is waiting for a car to back out so she can take the spot. And I need to stress from you that this is a HANDICAP PARKING SPOT! So the person in front of her finally pulls out and drives away, but before the woman in front of me can pull into the parking spot someone from behind me ZOOOOOOMS in front of her a STEALS THE SPOT!!!! Then the woman that stole it gets out of her car and starts yelling at the woman who was waiting for the spot! Now it's EXTREMELY rude and inconsiderate regardless, but this person didn't even have a handicap parking permit!!! WHO DOES THAT?! WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?! WHAT HAPPENED TO COMMON COURTESY?! I was soooooo angry at this person! I seriously wanted to get outta my car and slash her tires or something. It was so rude!!!!
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@olisaur (1922)
• United States
2 Dec 09
My mom feels the exact same way about walmart, lol. I've encountered a lot of spot-stealers like that before. It's just unbelieveably selfish and moral-less. I would never ever steal a spot if someone was there waiting for it. If I come across a rude driver, I usually just flip them off. w
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@RyanneD (186)
• United States
2 Dec 09
But see, flipping them off wouldn't have even satified me a little!! :-) Seriously, I just wish that I didn't care, ya know? That I just felt fine and completely guilt free to put sugar in their gas tank or key their car or something. But, alas, I have a conscience and I can't be mean to people... But ya know what? Karma is a b*tch...
@themdno (402)
• United States
2 Dec 09
I know what you mean. I hate going to Walmart. Also, I hate going to the commissary, on base here. If you go shopping there, people will turn their cart sideways so it blocks the whole isle, while they're looking at stuff. Or they just stand right in front of your cart and wait for you to back up and move. This one old man had no cart, just a can of soup in his hand. He walks in front of my cart, while I'm pushing it, and just stares at me. There's no where for me to go right or left, so I either have to push through him, or back up 4 or 5 feet, and let him by. So, I just stop and act like I'm looking at stuff, haha. Then I hear him, "EXCUSE ME! I'M TRYING TO GET BY!" Seriously, people are annoying at places like that. I mean, I don't have a problem moving out of someones way, but it's harder to move a cart full of groceries, than to step aside for a second.
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@RyanneD (186)
• United States
2 Dec 09
Seriously there are so many times that I wish I didn't have any manners what so ever! There are times when I wish it was socially acceptable to just RAM someone who's in your way! BAAHHHH!!! It really does drive me crazy! And like you mentioned, people will just stop in the middle of an isle and act like there's no one else there that's trying get by! I don't get it! Like, if I have to stop to look at something or whatever I go out of my way to make sure that people can still get by me. It's called common courtesy and, unfortunately, I think it's starting to disappear completely and it SUCKS!!!!!!!!!
• Philippines
26 Dec 09
Yikes! that's really a bad story. I dont know what is happening now with some people. I don't know if they are totally inconsiderate, or they are stupid, or they are just like that. I don't know. Gosh! I think, this scenario is not just happening in Walmart, i think in other places too.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
7 Jan 10
hi ryanned this happens all over, so why hate Walmart. a lot of us can afford walmart prices when we can not afford other. jerks in cars and suvs will be jerks any place. A group of us from Gold Crest were taken to get our IDs from the DMV that is one public agency I really really hate, anyway the parking lot was so full people were cruising for parking spaces and waiting in line behind any car that looked to be pulling out, so we had to wait behind this teensy little car that was also waiting for a mammoth SUV to pull out,well she gave up and so Yara,our activities director pulled up thinking we would get this big spot for the Van, wrong, another little car pulled into it right in front of us coming from the wrong way too, thus snarling traffic completely.Yara gave them a loud toot on the horn. Then we did luck out when another van pulled out. so she slipped us in then. the owner of the little car that took our first spot came over and was going to give Yara a bad time. but then Yara got out and the skinny little bit@h took one look at the size of Yara and sort of just ran off to the DMV. Yara just laughed. She is a large young woman for sure.[em]thumbdown[/em
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
7 Jan 10
It is really rude, unfortunately people do it all the time. It really makes me mad especially when I have waited for a while and I have my turn signal on and everything, but doing this to a handicapped person is just so much worse. I really don't know what possibly gets in people's minds where they think it is OK or acceptable to treat another human being like that.
@niara25 (147)
• United States
7 Dec 09
I understand what you're talking about when it comes to common courtesy. However, I need you to put yourself in the Walmart employees shoes for a moment. They're over-worked and underpaid. $10 an hour means nothing if you only work 15 hours a week. The whole time they're at work they have to put up with rude inconsiderate SOBs who think those employees are their personal property. That gets old real fast. The customer is NOT always right. People become how they are treated. If you treat a person with kindness you may get kindness in return. Do unto others as you'd have done to you.
@RyanneD (186)
• United States
7 Dec 09
In my mind, you need to be polite to people regardless of how you're treated. Being rude back doesn't solve anything. I'm never rude to people. My parents didn't raise me that way. The Golden Rule (as you mentioned, do unto others...) was a big deal in our household. And if you believe the Golden Rule as you suggested, then you would treat people with respect and kindness regardless of how they treated you. If you're doing anything different, then that's a little hypocritical. I agree that there are people who treat walmart employees like crap, but it's no different there than in any other area of customer service. I was a waitress for a very long time and I didn't always get nice, polite people. I would get rude people often who looked at me as their personal servant. Does that mean that I was rude to them? No. In fact I was the opposite. I'm a firm believer that you "kill people with kindness". And, it usually turned out that the rudest customers made the best tippers. So, while I do understand what you're saying, I don't think that's an excuse at all. And it's not like I'm attacking the walmart employees. In my initial post I mentioned how it seems that EVERYONE'S attitude changes when they go into walmart. I never even suggested that it's JUST the employees that are rude.
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@niara25 (147)
• United States
9 Dec 09
RyanneD, I'm not justifying people being rude for any reason, but that's just how people are. People are rude and feel it's their right. It's not okay to be rude when someone is rude to you. I know you weren't picking on the employees. I was just stating a fact. Yes, people get crazy going into Targets and Wal-marts here, as well. They do make you wish you don't have manners. They are rude and nasty to everyone. In turn, everyone else blames the employees for everything wrong in their day. NO, it's not right, but it happens. What can we do? Seriously, I really wish more people were like you, the "kill them with kindness" type. I wanted to show this cycle that most people don't know how to break. Someone's rude and nasty with someone, then that person is rude with someone else. It goes on and on. No one is justified in being rude. I'm just saying it happens. When someone is rude and nasty with me. I don't return that rudeness. I'm the "apologize, smile, wish them a nice day and walk away" type.
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@Iram786 (498)
2 Dec 09
did you just realize that? [: