Why do they do that?

There are many different reasons why relationships do not work out. One of them is because of unfaithfulness. Not the other way around. I was reading some other articles here on the topic, and it seems the popular view is that people are unfaithful because the relationship is not working. Wrong. It is not working because of the unfaithfulness, even just thinking about it, and the guilt that is attached to it. Now, I am not saying it is ok to be unfaithful and you should have a guiltless affair. But what I am saying is that it's in our nature. Think about it this way. In evolution, an animal's soul purpose in life is to survive. Now it is not just a matter of the animal's individual survival, but the survival of the whole pack. Ok? Not only that, but the pack needs to evolve and be able to change and become bigger and stronger. So how do they do that? Well, one way is that they have an alpha male and female. The alpha is the strongest, the one that will be the main reproducer for the next generation. It's all about mixing genes to produce a better generation. Back to people. Men produce millions and millions of sperm every day of their lives. Why so much? Especially when women only produce one egg, once a month. And that's only for a few years of her life. So if we compare it to my example of gene mixing in animals, you have a few conclusions. Men have millions of sperm...it only takes one to fertilize an egg. So why so many? In actuality, of all those millions of sperm, there are only a few that are meant to reach the egg, like a quarterback in a football team. So again, so many? What are all those other sperm for? They are like warrior sperm. They are the pons to ward off the enemies so the quarterback sperm can reach the goal. I started to use a football analogy, so I'll stick with it. What about the other team? Well, exactly. Why would we need a full team, if we're not up against another? Keeping in mind the idea of evolution and gene mixing for the better next generation, since women can only produce one egg, only once a month, and only during the years that she's fertile, she needs to choose wisely who she sleeps with. For one, she's obviously going to be seeking out the alpha males. But how do you know who the alpha male is? And in a civilization like ours, it could take quite awhile to figure out whether the guy you're talking to is an alpha. Hell, especially with online dating, it's pretty random. So even if you do find an alpha guy, how dominant is he? Who are you comparing him to? And how can you be sure he's the best? Take football again, how do you know you're team's the best? You take another team that say their the best and you have them compete. So that's why women cheat. It's in their nature

Well, I can certainly understand your frustration! First off, if we didn't have faults we wouldn't be human. We'd be like Data on Star Trek. LOL! Secondly, the Bible teaches that everything happens for a reason. There are many things that happen to us and the Bible teaches that we can't know everything. If we did we would have the mind of God and we don't have the capacity to handle all all of that knowledge. Even if we did have the capacity to know everything we wouldn't understand it all. Our minds can only accept so much. Life is such an incredible journey. Hey, let's put it this way...............you wouldn't want to know the journey I've been through! LOL! Have you considered the both of you talking with a counselor about the worries you are having? It might be a good idea. Kind of like marriage counseling for friends! Have a great day, hon! Purrs, Catwoman=^..^= & Mija

unfaithfulness can be because of many reasons. Many people get married just for the heck of it. Later they realize that they never loved the person they married. So they lose interest in their partners and look and others partners and try to have extra marital affairs.

What business is it of ours, or yours? None, that's what. So what if he's a celebrity? does that make his private life your business? Is your life any of my business? I think not. If your life is none of my business, why is Tiger Woods life any of yours? don't you have anything better to do? Like going to work, por taking care of your family, if you're married? reality check, please.

In my opinion, i think the biggest reason is time~ As time goes by, he became a person too familiar to you, when you hold his hands, do you have the feeling: just like hold you own hands? The feeling to you is familiy more than love. So at this moment, unfaithful is easy to happen...

well ofcourse there is a fault of women also as if u r married tht doesnt mean tht u r the only gal left on earth there r stilloptons availabe and if ur partner doesnt find u tht much attractive or interseting as lyk before he do so he can switch over next so it is very essential for a women to know and learn how to be a man's magnet so tht his partner should stick to it n it applies viceversa

hi leateagee I am not sure who the woods family is at all. But as to why men become unfaithful, maybe they planned on being a player even while married, some men do not want just one woman,which is sad for the woman they marry.they just have 'no idea of being faithful to one person. of course sometimes the wife may be at fault too.there are probably as many reasons as there are men who are unfaithful.Some women too like to be p layers and thats all so wrong.if they do not intend to really love and be faithful to one person. for goodness sakes do not marry. dont know if I have helped much.but most people do marry for love and are faithful.I am sure you and your loved one will be true to each other. good luck and best wishes. God bless.