I am lost, my husband cheated on me but its worst....

But you aren't going to let him away with this are you? I mean in time you are going to kick him to the curb,right? We just can't let men get away with this sort of thing!!!!

No, if there is no trust, there is no relationship.. It's too complicated to just let him back into my life... I cannot forgive him for it.. I am sad for my babies.... My babies... I can't see him or speak to him and yet, my babies....

Thank you.. It's hard and because it's sooo fresh, it hurts.. I know time will let me heal...

Thank you.. I was starting to wonder why this happened.. I did everything I could as a woman.. I guess I wasn't enough... I can't let my 2 babies see me this way.. But I know with time I can make it... But it stings so much now...

I would cut off my arm to take away this heartache... My god, I am sooo... unconsolable.......

I don't know if therapy will help me now.. I just want to hurt him... I can barely see this screen because of all the tears that I have... It's awkward to talk to strangers but I didn't want my family to find out yet... What hurts more is that his family knew and did not tell me.... I can't...

You have two choices now: your husband, or your babies? Don't waste another tear on him, and don't question yourself as a wife or a mother. You are a strong woman, and he had the problem. Let him be someone else's problem. You have to pull together, and put all that extra love you had for your husband into yourself, and your babies. And don't involve yourself with his family either. They sound like jerks. The hard part is the baby with another woman. That baby had no choice in any part of this, and deserves a father, too. So, being the strong woman that you are, have a place in your heart knowing that. You have your mylot supporters, and when you are ready, tell your own family. Until then, work on getting his stuff put in trash bags and leave them on the front yard. How did you find out?