how to make marriage life work
By mariashieryl
@mariashieryl (61)
Philippines
December 2, 2009 11:28pm CST
i just got married 1 week ago.. and we are now fighting over money.
He doesn't seem to share and im left with all the house expenses.. I feel its unfair, and in spite of that he makes me feel I'm no good for him instead of making up for his inability to help me especially that im near my due date of pregnancy. I still wish i can fix this marriage for i want it to work..
2 responses
@Godmother (476)
• Indonesia
3 Dec 09
It looks like your husband has a big ego. Is his income smaller than you ? Instead of arguing (which makes matters worse) try to find out how to get the message in him. Is it through his best friend, or his family ? Maybe someone closest to him can guide you both. When the baby is born, men usually change. Try to focus on the baby. Ask him nicely ( like asking for a favor) to buy the diapers, milk, etc. With asean men, when you become "the weaker one" they usually would like to become "the stronger one." I hope it works, Good luck and God be with you.
@priyavivek (681)
• India
3 Dec 09
hi mariashieryl ,
i have crossed just 4 years of marriage life and blessed with a baby. the core thing behind marriage life is to leave ego and adjust the other whenever there is some misterms. if you follow this i guess everything in your marriage life will go fine. you have to be open hearted and discuss everything with your spouse in case if you face any problems. try to be friendly with those whome your spouse is behaving friendly. nothing more to do. mutual love and care will do wonders in marriage life
