Independence or rely on others?

Hi Nora, I don’t mind to admit my mistakes but I don’t like if somebody blames me. I must do the same with good intention but it went wrong then if somebody blames then I may get angry. Usually if I did any mistake I am realizing the same in the next moment so it is not difficult for me to admit to somebody. I will try to learn from it. Your friend may be a good criticizer and good criticism can help us in a positive way.

Hi Norah, It's okay to ask for assistance and help from time to time but before doing this we need to maximize everything that we can do on our level. We are the best person to deal with in times of crisis--depending on others might lead to distress and vain as what you said. I am a very independent person, i can be relied on but i see to it that the person i am helping already explored everything on her level before asking me some help. In this way i will be training him or her to handle situations in her own unique and simple way. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND APPRECIATE EVERYTHING THAT YOU ARE CAPABLE OF DOING!

I stopped depending on my parents when I finished high school , sorry , I can't help you out on this because I have no experience at all. But maybe I would just tell you to start planning on being autonomous when it comes to small needs because your parents won't be there forever!