How do you decide someone is Mr/Mrs Right?

I dont think its a decision, I believe is the way you feel. Im not married, but I do know when mr. right has arrived :)

listen to your heart Reyachan, most of the answers to your questions are coming from your heart. years in relationship is not a guarantee that you will have a lasting relationship. before my husband, i have a relationship that lasted for seven years, it just didn't work out. though we are still friends when we separated but yeah you are correct: something just did not really fit in. my husband now, for 11 years is i think the "Mr. Right" given by God to me. we were just like less than a year into our relationship but we find the "fit", and most especially - I LISTENED TO MY HEART! that is probably the reason why were are still connected, understanding of each other, giving and forgiving of each other's mistakes, and continue loving each other. God has given me a gift, and i listen to it. God luck Rey...

1st criteria is perfectly match character. Need to match in some of the things such as favorite food or movie.2nd criteria is have some similarity in interest. As long as have minor similarity then would have topic to share and discuss. 3rd you need to tolerate each other, accept opinion. Lastly should be accept his/her look.

I do not like to set an ideal Mr/Ms right as everything comes to me as naturally as the more i set up a character or ultimate passion for the object of my interest it is bounds to fail me and only results to lot of disappointment. So the more I make up interesting qualities or list of requirement of an ideal partner, the more it refuse to be successful. Thus, it is better for me not to expect high standard as it fail to either impress me or likewise the opposite he/she is not impress with me. I think if the basis is only after an ideal matches which is a make up by mind full of fantasy it is very hard to find one. I think i am better of to act and think normal not taking too much time to search for it as when the right times comes you would definitely feel it.

I am married. when i met my wife it was like wow and it still is, i get butterflies everytime i hear her for the first time of the day and it feels a little like im living a dream. up until i met her i hadnt really thought of marriage or where i want to be in a few years but now its all i think about and i cant believe how happy i am. i even enjoy doing the dumb things like i'll go and watch a movie i hate the look of and i actually enjoy it just because were doing it together

Hi Reyachan! So, I'm married and love my husband very much! But I have to disagree with people when they say it's just something that happens. Marriage is one of the most important decisions of your life...YES, DECISIONS. You can let yourself fall in love with anyone...heck, you could fall in love with an awful person if you let yourself! Love is very easy in the beginning...when you feel like there's no one else besides the two of you and nothing else in the world matters. Love conquers all, right? To a point. I think the single most important thing in my marriage is our goals and desires. We love each other...obviously. We would not have married each other otherwise. However, what good is love if you don't want to go the same place in life. I don't mean career wise, but I mean the truly important things: family, beliefs, things of that nature. One of you wants kids and the other doesn't; one of you is a staunch Christian, the other a Buddhist. You need to want the same things in life. There is of course, wanting to spend the rest of your life with that person:) Love will start may start out as butterflies, but it's more than a feeling; it's an action more than a feeling, in my opinion. You care more about that person than yourself and are willing to do anything for them and their well being. You can't imagine spending the rest of your life with anyone else. Unfortunately, it's not a science, but you'll know when you meet him. Just make sure you want the same things in life too :)

Mr/Mrs Right isnt something you decide..its something you just KNOW when it happens...Unfortunately being wiht your soulmate isnt always possible when there are outside issues or influences involved..thats what happened with me...BUT at the same time my husband is in many ways Mr.Right he's just not my soulmate and I'm not his...We're the best of friends though and have been together for 11 yrs and to hell and back but still happy....

I have read your story. I am single and never married but I know you can tell if he's meant to be the one for you. Pray for it and you will know. You will just know, in time.

I do not like to look for mr right as their is no ideal partner and everyone is not perfect. You would get a lot of disappointment if you set your ideal man as lot have defects. Thus, it is better to let the right things happen at a right time when other feel compatible truly bound by love that know to make an adjustment through trial and error.

I'm not married but when you find your soul mate you'll just know. My parents have been together for a long time and no matter how bad things have gotten you can see in their eyes that there is no one else in the world they would be with.