FORGIVENESS! DO YOU FIND IT EASY?

in most cases i can forgive but there is a case that i`m finding really difficult to deal with let alone find that i can forgive them for what they have done

Some things are harder than others and some do not deserve to be forgiven....better to get over the problem and move on.

No, I don't. But I try to forgive anyone who has hurted me.

I would have to agree with you, sometimes it's very hard to forgive, but in time I forgive everyone.

Usually I can forgive very easily, forgetting may be a different story, though. And like others have said, the degree of hurt does make a difference, usually in the length of time it takes to stop hurting.

Forgiveness is a very good word. It take a bigger person to say it.

For me, i can easily forgive a person who did something wrong with me, just as long as its not too damaging and not to serious but its the trust that is really difficult to give back in this situation.

It depends on what the forgiveness is. It can be hard at times, but I know I should no matter what. So, I pray for the Lord to help me do it.

Now that I am older I think I find it easier to forgive. When I was younger I didnt really realize how short life is and that you shouldnt spend it being mad at someone. So now I forgive easier then I use too.

well i think.. its not to easy, especially if they hurt you so much ..

Its bit difficult to forgive .but its good to forgive others

Im having a hard time forgiving specially the one who have hurt me is someone close to my heart. But like they've said forgive and forget and Move on

it can be so hard to forgive, it takes time in my opinion, I had someone I considered a best friend that talked bad about to me to other"friends" and made fun of me due to a car accident and my health conditions. She hurt me very bad and then on her blog publicly talked awful about me. I took the higher road and refused to lower myself to her standards! I have forgiven but not forgotten and I can never ever resume my friendship with her.

If you've ever heard that everything that is simple is not necessarily easy, forgiveness is probably the best example. Often, the people we have the most difficult time forgiving are the people we care about the most. This is because these are the ones who have the power to hurt us. Pride is an ugly thing. Put it aside and forgive. If your bitterness is hurting that other person, it's only because they care about you. The person your unforgiveness hurts the most is you.

sometimes i can forgive easy but sometimes i can't

I'm in the frogive but don't forget grouping. That way I learn not tomake the same mistakes again! I will move on with that paerson but be on the lookout always. I know it doesn't sound too christian but its best so that you don't get hurt too often.

No I don't find it easy, but do find it necessary. Unforgiveness is like taking poison yourself, and hoping your enemy will die. Unforgiveness only hurts ourselves.

Its not that easy to forgive especially if it really hurt too much to the point that it ruins your life. But damage has been done we have no choice but to let it go from that. For us to move on we must left behind all those hatred that causes pain. As mostly said time will heal everything. Forgiving someone will set you free and then you can freely move on.

Yes I dont forgive easy. This is a little sad but its true. many years ago when I was married to my 2nd husband some of his so called friends did the most worst thing that Ive ever heard of.my mom had just passed away and these friends that did not like me had called the cops when I was getting things ready to go home for the furnal and told the cops that I was leaving and leaving my kids at home alone when I came back from the store there was a cop at my door with my kids ready to take them. by the way kids were going with me. anyway me and my kids were just fine and the cops went after them for false info. but just learned that one of the three that did this just passed away yesterday and I still will never forgive her.

I don't find it easy to forgive a person especially if he/she has hurt me so much. But as time passes by, I learn to forgive but the friendship is never the same anymore. After what he/she did, I can't trust that person again.