Do you think my friend ellize needs to give up the man of her dreams?...

Shi should leave him.He knows he has a cancer or a leukemia,he should leave her consciously,but he didnt.I dont think he is a good man .

hi gelli, I'm sorry to hear that. I hope that he will be cured and be out of danger, as we all know cancer is hard to treat, most of its kind is not treatable...the chances of survival is very low. Anyway back to your topic, I would love to see your friend sticking with her boyfriend. Since, that how love should be in the first place. Through thick and thin, for better or worse. True love defies all, love can conquer all even if it's the most impossible one. But how you put it, it seems she is "confused" and she want some help to decide what is better thing to do. I must say, I guess with her statement, her love for him is not that "pure"... she is hesitant and on the battle of living her life with him or staying out of the situation. I don't want to misjudge her or anything but, I want to know if she "truly" loves him and wants to sacrifice everything for the sake of love. If she was still confused then....it is not all worth it. There are two things might happen in this situation, she either can stick with him because she pity him and she thinks he needs him in situation like this (which is totally not the right thing to do). Or she can leave him and go on with her life without taking the burden. Reality bites, true love can see no sickness and can see no hardship. True love doesn't let you choose what is right for your "own sake"...but to decide what is best for the one you love. Happy Lotting!

If she really loves him then she will stay with him, this has to be her choice and her choice only No one can give her an answer to that Me I would stay, if he is the Man of my dreams/Heart I would stay and look after him, help him to get through this and hopefully he can get cured Love is for real in bad and good times and this is what she has to ask herself, is her love strong enough

she should fellow her heart. and if it tells her to stay with him no matter if he have an illness or not. if they love each other that much they should enjoy the time they have left.

hey that is very sad to know that the guy is suffering from such a dreaded disease. Now the option for her is to stick to the guy. Because when there is will there is way. The disease can be cured. Believe in God. The disease can go. They can have a good relation. tell your friend to not leave that man. And give him strength to survive. i am sure he can get well soon. God bless him.

I am confused with your friend's situation. You mentioned that she noticed that her ideal guy, her boyfriend, is sick. Did she asked him? No, she does not need to stay, the poor guy needs someone else who really cares for him in times of good and bad... Sorry for being too one-sided in this scenario but you mentioned that your friend needs advice. But no one forced anyone to stay in a relationship. If she wants to go, she can go, but I hope she won't regret her decision. No one choose to fall sick or be stuck with incurable illness. Maybe we do not know the hard times she has been through but the way things are written makes me think negatively about her.

Hi, Gelli! I don't think it's your friend's boyfriend's fault that he is sick with cancer or whatever. He did not choose to be sick. If Ellize really loves him, then why not just stay beside him? I mean it will be really unfair if Ellize will leave her boyfriend just because of that reason. However, if she feels that she is no longer in love with him and the only reason that she's staying in that relationship is 'pity', then might as well leave. One's illness should not be a hindrance to one's happiness and it shouldn't be a reason to end a relationship, nor should pity be a reason for one to stay.

hello gelli.. if she really loves the guy she would stay.. since the guy is suffering sickness i think she should really be there for him.. relationship wise i dont know what she has to do coz it would seem to be impossible for the guy to live that long since he is suffering that condition he is in now.. but i just think she should be there for him.. so that the guy would be happy on his last moments.. have a nice day

If she loves her boyfriend, she would stay with him. Especially that he is in a difficult state of having a serious illness. True love will look at the other's welfare, not just for one's own. True love can mean sacrifice but if it gives joy and comfort to anyone who is in real need, then the real essence of love in self-giving is made manifest. Miraculous cures and healings do take place. I would advise her that she pray hard, try to bring her boyfriend closer to God and try to attend healing Masses. She can check the schedules of world renowned Filipino healing priest Fr. Fernando Suarez at www.fatherfernando.com. With faith, miracles do happen. And best of all, we pray that God's Will be done in our lives because that is always the best for us. I will pray for your friend Ellize and her boyfriend. God bless you all.