When did you become perfect?

Nobody is perfect in anything and there is no end to knowledge either. Mylot is not a training school for writing skills so I don’t think anybody can be criticized on that front. However, there are many veterans here you can give you some tips on how to frame your discussions better or to choose your topics wisely or how to highlight your first sentence so that it draws the maximum attention. If the criticism is constructive, you’d learn quite a few things from them.

Non of us are perfect... We all make mistakes. Mylot is for discussion not to judge others spelling or topics and such. We all have different opinions on matters. We all have different thoughts. Some of us start discussions because a matter is on our minds and are looking for advice and suggestions or just want to learn what others feel to make educated choices. Don't sweat it let those that think they are perfect make comments. One day someone will point out their mistakes to them. In the meantime stay imperfect and enjoy. Chin up and the heck with the others.

None of us are perfect and the people thinking they are , Are only fooling themselves into beleaving that they are but I hate to tell them all nope not by a long shot are they

Hi bluepacket, everything you write is negative and when people answer your discussions you only respond to the ones who agree with you and ignore the others, or you take offence at anyting you don't agree with. You cannot expect that everyone who responds to you agrees with you, but it is not criticsim if someone disagrees with you. You posted a discussion wanting advice on your pimples and were very rude to those who advised you it was down to bad diet, you posted a discussion on your obesity and are rude to those who try to advise you. Your discussions once posted are open to everyone, and everyone has the right to criticise your use of repeating your own discussions as it is against guidelines but you take that as personal criticism. Your 'All men are pigs' discussion was deleted and replaced with 'some men are pigs', you've put up repeat discussions about leaving here as you can't make money for your quality discussions but you've been advised over and over that by not responding to people you aren't going to make any money, and a lot of your discussions are repititions of your complaints. Here's a few to give thought to even though it is only a small example: This annoys me, I'm a complainer, I don't like, I never liked. If people don't like your quality discussions then they don't need to respond, but once you've posted them it is up to you to to guide those discussions and by spurning well meaning advice, shouting at people, and ignoring people, then inevitably you will enhance your reputation for negativity. Personally I thought your discussion 'Stop picking at your wart' could have been a fun discussion but you seem to take any form of frivolity as criticism.

some people do start consistently excellent discussions. some start a mixture - i have started a few horrors myself and had to put up with some teasing. some horrors i started deliberately to annoy those said teasers. now i have seen a lot of your discussions and some are really good (i think i have usually said so) and some are not. i think you should just accept criticism when it occurs and not feel hurt by it.

There is a chinese proverb."the brightest of all things,the sun,has spots."No body is perfect,so don't care others'criticize excessively,just try your best to write.Then you are the number one.

Well, no body is perfect anywhere in this world . People pretend to be ...but they are not ...believe me . In great books ...it get called that there are only one perfect being and that's called GOD .. So you know ....no body is here who can pretend to be GOD ... so how can he pretend to be perfect ... Thanks

I think all of your discussions are fine too. There are just some people who think they run Mylot. They think they own part of it or something and claim to know alot about it. I have been here a very long time and know how it all goes. don't worry about what they say.

You say you are a negative person and from what little I've read on other postings, I understand that you have had some very negative things in your life. Negative outlook attracts negative experiences. What I see here is some advice that if you were to look at it in a positive way, it could help you look at your experience here in a more positive way and you may find yourself enjoying your time here. Your insecurity is also due probably to negative experiences and negative feelings about yourself. I get it that you are a negative person but I find it hard to believe that you are okay with that. Because you've got such a deep negative outlook on yourself and your world, it would be almost impossible for you to have a good time or to feel happy. Maybe talking to a therapist would help? People here are not trying put you down or make you feel worse. They are offering up advice and thoughts that could maybe help you out. You may not agree with all of them but you could respect their thoughts and know they were just trying to help and maybe even nicely explain why you don't agree.

oh dear hi blue65packer shame on them, we should work on our own discussions first before opening our big mouths to criticize anyone else. I think most of us are trying our best and like I say we should all check our own grammar and typing first. I know I am far from prefect and even with spelling checker I do manage a few real gems of typos. then I have to comment to explain what the heck I really meant. I have never seen anything wrong with your discussions. I always enjoy them and try to respond.

Some people may think whatever they are, but in the real life it's not always as the same as the thought they were. I really appreciate diversity in writings, as for me that is why MyLot exists. Regardless perfect or not, we can always speak out our mind as writings, can't we ? I always keep this in mind : Nobody's perfect, and nobody will be.

Hi, Well i m not perfect.So i don't know how to become perfect person.Some people like to criticize good thing in discussions.Just ignore them .

Hi blue packer: Don't worry about this, it's obvious that some people don't like what we write but that's simple part of our life. We can not make that everybody loves us but at the same time it's important to keep making mylot a great site that we respect each other and i think that this person don't make this. Simply don't pay attention to this comments. Have a nice day. Alvaro.

Haha, I just don't think there are people who are "perfect." Not even our Pope in the Catholic church I guess. Nobody is omnipotent because we are just human beings. We could always make mistakes. For as long as you still have good personal reasons for myLotting - say, you enjoy writing and sharing your ideas - you can hold your nose and do your best to ignore them. Continue improving your craft for the better. I do hope that you'll continue myLotting. Have a blessed day.

same to you buddy i am also not got at creating discussion but i love mylot very much whether others repond to my discussion or not i will not stop creating discussion. I feel very happy when others respond to my discussion. One of my class girl also join in mylot because of me.

I would never want to be perfect, as perfect people are normally shunned. It is those little blunders that we commit that bind us to each other. Long live imperfect people!!!

If you will ask me when did i become perfect, i will answer you, all the time, perfect depends on the person who will perceive the word, i am perfect for my wife's eye, and she is perfect to my eyes. I am perfect according to me, cause i do not have inferiority complex and i will not down myself, but of course that is for me only. I will not boast for it, meaning i am perfect for myself and me only cause i am sure others will have lots of criticism on me, cause for them i am not perfect. I love myself and God told us to do so, therefore i will say that i am perfect, cause we are created by God, perfectly according to his features. We can think, we can decide, we can move, and we have life, that again makes us perfect. Anyway, perfect really depends on the person who will perceive it. If the situation will be about mylot, i can say, i am not perfect for others, but for me what i write is perfect, and again, that is all for me only. People have the right to express their own feelings and points of views, therefore people are also ready to accept criticisms and feedback. Not all the time, the criticisms that we will receive from other person is really good, and sometimes we will receive something that will really hurt us, but it is ok, we started the discussion therefore we know the consequences of it, anyway, the purpose of mylot is discussion and sharing, and expressing, therefore criticisms are allowed. If i think that the feedback or criticism is very offensive or vital, the presence of the markings are there. We cannot have a good discussion if all people will agree in one point of view only, we cannot have something to debate to, and something to talk about and exchange opinions, if all of us will agree to one and all of us have the same thinking. You agree, then it is good, you will not, then it is ok. I can mark those people who are very offensive, and the mark will surely be - or !. That is for their lesson, and i think mylot will surely give them the right kind of disciplinary action. I will not give those markings if the person only wanted to give his own opinion and criticize my work in a nice way. Instead of being angry and affected negatively, i will be much more happier, cause by that, i know that people reads my discussions and i am getting their attention. I will be much more happier cause by that, i am sure that my discussion is interested and can be a quality postings for mylot cause it will start a long discussion. I am not saying that i am good and you are wrong and try to change the way you think, cause it is you and that is what you want. All i want you to understand is that, we create discussions, articles and write anything, to express our feelings and we need to be ready on any kind of criticisms. Even famous writers experience criticisms, not only good but negative and very bad criticisms. The way they ware being criticized means, their book are effective and a good topic to read. I am also trying to be a good writer, that is why i am ready to accept others points of views and criticisms. A good writer will be much more happy when things like that comes to me, i will not be affected negatively, instead, i will be glad by that words and negative criticisms that will be thrown to me, cause by that, i am also learning, and becoming a much better writer. If there are negative criticisms and i think that i am right and i need to defend my beliefs, i will do comment/respond to it in a nice and peaceful manner. Then, i am sure it will be a good and long discussion, then if i see that the discussion will be a really long one and we both will not really agree with each other, then i will immediately end it, again in a peaceful manner. Being a writer is hard, not only because it is hard to write fresh ideas and stories, but also because of the criticisms, but if you will be affected by those, and it will make you down or depressed, therefore it will not make you a good writer and for sure you will be nailed in the position where you are right now. I want to be a famous writer, i want to write books for the world, actually i am already starting the write the books that i want to publish in the near future. I am making myself ready for it, specially when it is already published, i am making myself ready for criticisms, positive or negative, vital or not, and happy or sad. Cause by that, it makes me know that, my writings is becoming famous and read by the people and it is effective and makes sense. And i will use those criticisms for my future books to be much more better, effective and perfect. That is my point of views about writing, criticisms and being perfect. Have a nice day!

same YOu, i am fresher here, still i done lots of mistakes, make sentence lack of vocablary/ grammer, when i started to give response to discussions first i feel shy litle bit of nervous but after some time and encouragement of my fiance i used to write here daily .. now i feel litle more confidence in my self.. One most Universal thought is no body is perfect ... and meanwhile i am NObody.. but may be one day by day i become more perfect/confident. thanks a lot

the people cannot be perfect

i do my work at correct time no one is very perfect but we have to do our work perfectly to be perfect