have you ever got ditched by your best friends?

I have been ditched by best friends in the past, especially when I was younger. Now I'm in my 20s I find that female friends (I'm female too) come and go for some reason yet my male friends stick around without an agenda and it's not because they fancy me (most cases they don't). They just know I can be a good friend.

been there done that, i was also on the reciving end. i was the bozo who introduced my best mate to her now hubby back when we were at school. got him of wanting me which was a good thing, she then ditched all of us at school for him. i didn't talk to her after we finished, only spoke to her at a friends 21st when we were both preg. became friends again, i even got her a job whee i was milking a few yrs later. she was preg with her 3rd child when she had go at me over my parenting, haven't spoken to her since then unless i have to be polite. i just moved on with my life, but then i'm happy just being by my self as well. so it doesn't bother me not having friends around.

ya in ma college....badly hurts...:(

It is not fair to mistrust all others because of what one person did! But you are going to be more cautious, right? I am sorry this happened to you. In my life, I am more often the dumper than the dumpee, if you do not mind my made-up words. Maybe I should say the ditcher not the ditchee, lol. So to be honest, if someone ditched me I probably would not even notice. I guess this is why they say blood runs thicker than water though. I hope your siblings never ditch you!

they like to run over you.

yes even i got 2 ditches. the first one which i got was from someone who was with me since a decade but people change as per time and we dont even come to know that. the second ditch i got was from my new friend i never ever thot tht even she can do tht to me neways its our life n we r meant to get some ditches on our foolish decissions so we r facing them. best choice dont make best friends.

Well that happens. It can be for many reasons but basically it can be that either they want ditch for something good or they have used you to their needs and now they have no use for you. That might sound rude but you might want to analyse. I have been ditched by my friends as well, amy a times actually but I had some helping hands that came to hold me in time. That was in my younger days but now I can easily sense people when they make friends with me for a purpose. That is a filthy thing, they can just ask it to be done as a favor. Anyways now I have good friends who are always with me even in my time at hell(times of troubles) he he :)

yeah .. i had one horrible expirence, which is not able to share here , i dont forget that episode my whole life, well after that day i stop to talk her, but i dont thought that all friends are cheat,still i trust all. i think first it our responsible to trust others after that its others duty/interst waht they want to do ...break it or make it.. have a nice day