New mammy, How to deal with the relationship with your husband?

It seems we have not met the same problem with you. I stay with my mom after giving birth to my son, and my mom do almost all of the houseworks. After I go back to work, my parent in law are helpping taking care of my son now. And my husband only go back home once in a week... Anyway, I do think my love to my husband are not as much as before my son come. Most of my attention are come to my son. Do you feel so as well?

In pregnancy some ladies might have more support than others. If the husband watched the birth he must have had joy seeing the baby arrive into the world. A couple should keep communication open after having had a new baby. The lady should be given the chance to have a rest whilst the man cares for the baby for a few hours. She could do less housework until she is over the birthing experience. Enjoyable trips out that are relaxing can help a family with a new baby bond. New mommies and daddies can have problems to begin with. Suddenly there is another person, a tiny little baby, that needs care around the clock: all day and all night. I think reading parenting books and then discussion can help a couple to stop the conflicts. Good luck. My baby girl is five months old. So I remember how things were when she was born and the weeks afterwards.