Which one is better of these????
@arunkrishnan005 (262)
India
December 4, 2009 10:56am CST
We al know that marriage in ones life can be held in two ways.By way of love and by way of arranged.In your opinion which is the best way of marriage???
Love marriage or arranged marriage???
I will opt for love marriage because we will come to know about the person whom we are going to marry when when love them.We can understand their habbits and their likes
What you say on this love or arranged???
3 responses
@epikna4o (49)
• Latvia
4 Dec 09
I gonna say love because if you love someone then your life is better and you are happier. But if you are maried on someone who dont love you then its like live with your enemy because you allway gonna fight....
@ishme4nowz (679)
• United States
4 Dec 09
I would say marry for love because, like you said, we know who the person is so it's not as though we were marrying a complete stranger or at least someone you barely knew. I personally would never go for arranged marriages because I believe that you should be able to choose who you want to marry. You should have the freedom to choose because you're going to spend the rest of your life with this one other person (because I don't believe in divorce), so you might as well make a good choice from the very beginning. I don't think that anyone should be forced to marry someone they don't love because it isn't fair to them. On top of that, you don't know if the two people that are arranged to be together are even compatible. They might just end up divorcing because they later find out (too far into the marriage) that they can't get along with each other. Marry for love, all the way =]
@umer5222 (724)
• Cyprus
4 Dec 09
People often do reply in yes or not. But i think there is also third option. My answer is "it depends". If i do love with someone, then i would first tell it with my parents, If my parents reject my choice, then i would try again to explain my case. It is truth that Parents have more experience than us, but it is also correct that our elders cannot change themselves according to the changing world.This thing mostly occurs when we get more educated and can see better ours long term planning. Every parent loves their children. I think nobody is going to reject our choice, because they also do love us. Sometimes parents do reject it, which ends in bad and horrible way.In this case i do blame to their parents. If we talk about arrange marriage, this is question of our whole life, If they see your partner with good sight, then why children are going to reject, expect if they fell in love with somebody. But i heard some problems of arrange marriage in family cousins, in which children birth appears with some disorder. May be due to some same blood. I not know it facts But it happens. Any way whether they decide our arrange marriage in family or outside family, It is also responsibility for us to listen our parents and to see if that partner fit us or not. We called it arranged marriage because it has been arranged by someone. Otherwise it is called love marriage.