Problem with Love.

Hi friends my name is kiran,iam loving a girl since 4 years,i have proposed her on she's birthday,she accepted, every thing is good for 2 years,but after that day she's father has came to know our love story he warned her that if she loves me he will kill me,after that she's not talking to me till now its already 2 years she leaved but i couldn't forgot her i really love her, i will die for her.but i dont know how to bring back her into my life,plz can anyone help me how to bring back her in to my life.

I say they should stay together, if he really loves her, it should not matter if she is the sister of the husband to his ex-girlfriend. Leaving her because of something she has no control over is unfair to her. Honestly your friend should have no real grudge over his ex-gf's husband either, what happened in the past was because of the parents and I know in some cultures and societies sometimes there are factors people can't control and there are choices that have to be made. When someone says "there's no choice" that's a load of BS, there's always a choice, it's all about if you can handle the consequences of that choice. Your friend and you should break it down to it's simplest form and don't look at who she's the sister and or daughter of who ever and just look at himself and the girl, you're just making things more complicated then it should not be. One Man, One Woman, who are in love, simple as that and stay together because they love each other. If the love is true then they'll stay together, but if not they'll eventually part. But yeah, it shouldn't matter and they should try and stay together, it's really unfair to base someone on the people the are related to.

You can't really 'suggest' to him anything, it's his life and his choices. Now if he had moved on, I wouldn't think there will be a problem. Similarly, there won't be a problem if they (the ex-girlfriend and him) don't get to live in the same house. Anyhow, it's still a new girl in his life, and I don't think that marriage is close. However, it will always be his choice. You should just be there to listen to him.

This one seems to be an tailor made one coz it is very rare for any person to face this kind of situation anyways if its true then i think he should go for her coz her first girl friend is past and there is no way to loose your current one for th past which doesnt make sense so ask him to go for the current one but are you sure this girl loves hima as well else it would be dificult for him to face the situation.gud day.

they should stick together past is past. He should forget all the past stuff and should start with his life with new one because someone gone then someone come it is the rule of universe

If I were you, I will say "Just do what you want, if you love the girl, love her with your heart; if you want to let her as substitute,then just leave~" And another suggestion, SAY NOTHING. Believe he can deal with the touble. Well, good luck to you.

And people wonder why I hate "arranged marriages"? This is why. I have said it before and I will say it again, love should happen naturally. If two people are in love, then they are in love. That is the way it is. When people get married, who should not be married, they find out later on in life, that they are miserable. Here is something I do not get, why would anyone force people to marry people they do not want to marry when they themselves do not want to marry people who they are not in love with? Does no one believe in freedom of love? The freedom to love who they want to love.

1st think of ur parents if they will accept the love marrriage, second one is u can marry the girl who u are loving now if she is very true to u ,not to be as a old one.but this time u parents should accept so that ur life will be happy after u r marrige.

prasant_sp3214, In the first place, what makes you think that it is not alright for your friend to have a successful relationship with his present girlfriend? Does he still have a problem getting over his ex girlfriend? I feel that you should just let him decide with his life and you move on with yours. It doesn't matter what he decides, I am sure he is fully aware and adult enough to handle himself. Even if he falls, I am sure he will be able to pick himself up and if he needs help, I am sure he is not short of a hand or shoulder from you. Take care and compliments of the season.

This is a very tricky situation, truly this world is a small place. I can't imagine being in this situation but if your friend truely loves his now gilrfriend he has to totally forget his old girl. If he gets married to this girl, he will have a kind of relationship with his former girl so if he want his marriage to work, he should keep away from his old girlfriend as much as possible. He should also tell his girlfriend, it is better for her to hear from him than from someone else. He should be careful.

see, this love is one of the coplex things that is out of our control.We have no control over this.Every body does this mistakes knowingly.Those who are in love will never listen to you if you are against them.It doesn't matter whether you rae right or wrong............

If they love each other and both are adults, then it's no body's business whether they see each other or not. Go for it but stear away from her brother to be safe. There's no point looking for trouble.

someone in love cant be persuaded to stop loving....if he does stop loving its not true love.Prasant,if your friend is happy with the present girl you too should be happy and help him to get her this time.Don't you think this is the correct way.

[b] Love a person not be in the abandoned if you do not love please let go if you love,please deeply [/b]

hello love is just a circle,he already forgot the his ex girlfriend,and the issue now is he love again but the girl as sister of the man that his ex girlfriend married.so this new girl doesn't have to do from his past,he already move,he should treasurewhat he got right now. tell him that love conquer all what is past is past,he love again because of this girl,and the ex girl friend is already taken by other man therefore he should be happy by now. he would just think GOD have something special for him that in his own way and in his own time.he should cherish that he met this girl whom the reason why he fell love again