Most women think that their men are not sufficiently romantic? Why?
By vijayanths
@vijayanths (7877)
India
December 5, 2009 12:21pm CST
Are men not romantic? Are women more romantic than men?
I know that the definition for romance will differ for different persons. Yet let us try to discuss on this topic.
Some women say that the meaning of love in men's dictionary is body and women's dictionary is heart....
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6 responses
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
5 Dec 09
Hello dear brother,
Everyone has different meaning and different views of how romantic their partners.
It also differs on each cultures(which i slowly observed with other nations/races,ahurrrmn)
In my opinion(basing on myself)
I like my man to be romantic in ways that it should only me knows about it.
I don't like a man who is too much showy about his love.
I like my man to be simply romantic in some mysterious ways(hehehe)
Some women thinks their man are not sufficiently romantic becoz men are not as showy as women does.
Men are much reserve than woman when it comes to relationship.
Men are not vocal than woman.
Lot and lots of differences between man and woman when handling a relationship,and giving a little of yourself is wanting for more.
Maybe women are too demanding,and men are too confident about themselves.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
6 Dec 09
I know about you jai. You are a romantic woman. Little pleasant surprises that only the partner could understand is perhaps the most romantic things in life.
(I used to do that when i was young , hehehe)
Men are romantic during the initial period of a relationship, it fades away when time passes on. The spark vanishes with time. That is the problem women complain often.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
6 Dec 09
precisely dear brother,sparks fades with time.
that's the reality with marriages/relationships.
@tangpeizhu (36)
• China
6 Dec 09
I don't think it is the excuse,"cause if he loves the woman,his love would be find from his behaviour in daily life,rommance is just the excuse of women's pettish.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
6 Dec 09
In my opinion both man and woman should stay romantic with each other life long.
@eshaan (6188)
• India
5 Dec 09
love is directly related to heart..so its not wrong if women think it to be like that...but i dont blame men..its just that they live and deal with the outer world much...so they are bit practical by nature...we should learn and try to understand the way he/she expresses her love..and try to find romance in it
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
5 Dec 09
wow, that is a very interesting and meaningful response from you eshaan. If every woman was like you men will be free and happy.
@farazkh1 (1153)
• Pakistan
13 Dec 09
I think it differs on the basis of different societies and different cultures but i have found Asian women to be more talkative and less physical due to there expectation from man and little more hesitation.but western women is more physical and less hearted ;).may be i am wrong...
however i will definitely agree with you as you said "Love means in man dictionary is body and women's dictionary is heart" that is completely true......!
@vandana7 (100300)
• India
6 Dec 09
Hi vijayanths, I am one of those. :) Oh! Men do care. But it more a patch work. In women, it is like a lovely stream like the pink shampoo out of shampoo bottle. :) LOL. With women, you can notice it constantly, whereas men rarely demonstrate. Not that it would look nice either. It would be so sissy - excessive demonstration. I would suspect that the guy is having affair elsewhere that is why he is overacting to cover his guilt. LOL. But then, I am a skeptical person. :) Why do I think like that? I dont know.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
6 Dec 09
Men do seem romantic at the start, right? The spark is missing after some years. Why? Men think there is no need to express after a period, it is understood that he cares for her.His ego may also add to it.
You had a bitter experience in life so you sound too suspicious.
One day a husband went home after work. His loving wife noticed a long black hair on his shirt and shouted at him, You , cheat, you have been with a young girl and hence came late to day"
Then next week again she caught him with a Grey hair on his shirt. " you are a womanizer, your taste is going low and low with days, now you spent time with an old lady today?"
Then in the next week she could bot find any hair on his shirt. This time she shouted, " you have become cheap womanizer, now you can enjoy your time with even bald women"... there is no end to this...
(poor men they have to do a lot of work to remove the evidences while entering the home,
@Rock_Me_In (400)
• India
19 Dec 09
Hi Vijay,
Hmmmm, sorry i cant accept this. Ya sure both man an women have body interests. But its not the true face of love. True love is always comparatively more involved to the hearty feelings not the body. And by the by to the discussion. Romance. The meaning of the word differs from person to person and from man to women. Men always think their girl to be more romantic and they won't compare their relationship with anothers. thus their is no place for more expectation. But when it comes to women, its a girl's character. As they are married they consider the only relation they've in the whole world is their husband and no one else. Thus they start to be more and more reserve and possessive over their husband. Thus even the slightest forgetness or anything like that becomes an big issue. In the same way they start to expect a lot from their husband. The care, romance and all. Thus even if the guy behaves normally, it acts as he is not getting as much romantic or provides as much care as his wife expects.