Being in Love with 2 people
By Qtpienyouri
@Qtpienyouri (35)
United States
December 5, 2009 1:34pm CST
Is it possible that you could be in love with two people? I mean who said you could only be in love with one. We go by what we were taught. Ok so you can love many people like your family,but only be in love with one person like your mate. Even saying i'm in love with two people seems cheap and cold heated and maybe alittle selfish. We go through life with so many emotions and deep down i think alot of people deal with this daily. Think about it, if your heart always us to love and be loved,is it possible that some people can be in love with two people at the same time. Some would say no its just lust and desire, and others would say your just confused. What would you call it?
5 responses
@arystine (1273)
• Philippines
14 Dec 09
For me, it is possible to be in love with two persons. But the best way to deal with it is not to pursue both, but to choose whom you love better. Sometimes, we are not aware that we are falling in love. Sometimes, it's too late when we realize how much we care about a person. So even if already committed to someone else, it is possible to fall in love with another person, to be confused. It would be selfish to keep both so the only way to resolve it is to choose one and deal with the heartbreak.
@Qtpienyouri (35)
• United States
17 Dec 09
It wouldnt be far,but sometimes its hard to hide how you feel, even when its not right. Thanks
@Dhinilshanker (395)
• India
5 Dec 09
my friend.love itself is of many types.the love you give towards your parents is completely different from that you give to your partner.and i completely disagree that you can love two people at the same time.that kind of love isn't true or sincere.cause if you love a person truly,you would find it hard to imagine anybody else in your partner's place.
@Qtpienyouri (35)
• United States
7 Dec 09
So why than do people who so call love their boyfriend/girlfriend or spouse cheat.
@Apple3Cranberry (678)
• United States
5 Dec 09
I think being in love with two people happens a lot. A guy will like two people but not know which one to ask out. So I guess you have to choose and reason why you like both of them then choose one.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
6 May 10
I do believe that a person sometimes can love two people in the same time. We all know that there is no law or there no rule that says, you cannot love another person at the same time.
But the question is? Is the love equal? How pure is the love? Well for me I don't believe that you can gave fare love in that two persons.Maybe into the highest percent the original one and the number two is only a percent.
@djemme (77)
• United States
24 May 10
I think it's definitely possible to love two people at the same time. As hard as it is, I wouldn't act on both. Sometimes it's a first love that you can't get over, but you need to move on with your life. You can not change how the heart feels, but you can decide how you will deal with it.
