Is it just me or is anyone else sick of this question - Whats for Dinner?

@jkcokley (265)
United States
December 5, 2009 5:42pm CST
I swear to goodness that if I hear my children ask me whats for dinner one more time I'm going to have one less child. I mean as if I'm the only person who knows where the frig is and how to cook. Okay, that was one more - Whats for dinner. Guess what they are getting Pancakes! Just for asking whats for dinner.
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
6 Dec 09
Sorry, couldn't resist. By the way, What's for dinner Mom?
• Regina, Saskatchewan
6 Dec 09
Again sorry. You'll get used to me. Sometimes I'm just out to lunch......or is that dinner?
@jkcokley (265)
• United States
6 Dec 09
You are funny! LOL I'm sitting here laughting my a... off. That was very good. Loved the smile faces. that was good. I got to tell ya. Nice touch. I love it.
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
6 Dec 09
So I take it Best Response is what was on the menu for dinner tonight? YUM and thanks Mom! ROFL
• Canada
6 Dec 09
I get the flipside of that question in my house... and it drives me equally crazy! LOL I will always ask "what would you like for dinner?" and I never get an answer besides "I don't know" or "I don't care." Frankly, I get tired of having to be the one to come up with dinner ideas every day. Particularly because, due to dietary restrictions, there are some meals I will make that I can't even eat. I figure just because I don't eat pasta anymore, for example, there's no reason to deprive my daughters of something they love. So, some nights I have to figure out what they might want and then still make something else for me. I've grown to hate cooking LOL which is unfortunate because it's something I've always enjoyed doing.
@jkcokley (265)
• United States
6 Dec 09
I get that response as well. I mean really what would they do if I wasn't around? They wouldn't find their socks, glasses, shoes, backpacks,wallets,and the list goes on.... The dinner thing though is what really drives me nuts because my son doesn't eat any red meat so chicken is his major source of food. I grew up making steak and potato's so chicken is a real pain in the behind for me. Also, unlike you I hate cooking altogether. Seriously I hate cooking. i would rather clean toilet. Honestly. I hate the whole waiting process of cooking. If it takes more than 10 minutes to prepare - I'm already bored with the process. I don't know - I don't care. The next time I hear those words I will be telling them to starve. LOL
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• Canada
6 Dec 09
LOL!! That's GREAT! I hope that you get in touch with them often to ask "What's for dinner?" I think what probably gets my goat isn't so much the asking what's for dinner... it's the assumption that it's only my job to do these things. I have it out regularly with my older daughter (who is now 19 and in college btw - but she commutes and still lives at home). She seems to think she's an adult outside of the house but, when she's home, Mom is still supposed to do everything for her. She will do things but not without being reminded every... single... time. Maybe we all feel taken for granted about some of this stuff? For my part, I've decided we're having soup for dinner tonight... I have too much gift wrapping and stuff to do so I've called a time-out on cooking hee hee There's always a way!
• Regina, Saskatchewan
6 Dec 09
When my boys drove me nuts with that question (OMG those were the days! lol), I finally hit on the response. "Listen up you little gaping mouths with hollow legs, I don't run a restaurant, so you'll eat whatever I put in front of you or I'm donating the cookies and cakes to the starving children in China!" It only took my having to say that about a million times before they stopped asking that question. Now they are both Chefs! Go figure! LOL 1
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• United States
6 Dec 09
You and my partner would get along great then because they're always getting on my case about asking what's for dinner. I usually ask that because they usually have it planned out or have looked through the fridge to see what is in there and what could stand to be used up or thrown together to make something else. I sure get heck for asking sometimes though.
@jkcokley (265)
• United States
6 Dec 09
Okay, i get the planned thing, but once in a while someone could just do it. Just go make dinner. i know everyone wants to ask because maybe I "we" have already planned it but if you don't smell food by a certain time maybe the power that be might just make it out of the goodness of your heart.. I think my problem is more with the kids always asking and asking . Its like the name. MOM MOM, MOM, MOM what this, where is that,....after a while it is just mind numbing. So, here i think you should treat your partner to a nice dinner made by you. I suggest spagetti. LOL have a great night.
@jerzgirl (9291)
• United States
6 Dec 09
And here I thought you were making a comment about the many people who post that question as a discussion!! I had my answer all ready, too. I actually like that question because when I'm having a "brain blockage", it's one I can answer and get things started in my head. As for when kids ask - I don't remember mine asking that often. And, I don't remember asking my mother, either. It was just something that happened - unless I could smell it and wasn't able to tell what it was - then I'd ask. Now, when I was caring for my mother before she passed, she'd ask me every single morning as she was eating breakfast. That got to me since I don't make up my mind until closer to dinner what's for dinner. She was someone who planned every meal out in advance, so she'd be a bit perturbed if I didn't know in the morning what I was going to have for her that night.
@jkcokley (265)
• United States
6 Dec 09
At my house it has become a never ending question, you think these kids who are 19 and 15 and a hubby who is well.... Could lend a hand. I have decided my new response to this question will be "Whatever you're making".
• Philippines
6 Dec 09
lol, i guess thats a common household words already so dont just bother them. besides if i tell that to my mom it means im excited to know what she cook for us but if its the same menu then its alright as long as she cook for us. its the sweetest thing to say to my mom that we are interested to what shes cooking.
@jkcokley (265)
• United States
6 Dec 09
Believe me these kids were not asking because they love Mom's cooking and when told what was for dinner - it is usually followed by - really is there anything else.... Its nice to know that someone is excited about their moves cooking. I however am not the greatest in the cooking department. I would rather clean house than cook a meal.
@jkcokley (265)
• United States
6 Dec 09
Thanks but my kids didn't ask out of excitment. I'm not a great cook and I hate cooking. I would rather have a tooth pulled than cook a meal. I am glad that there is someone out there that appreciates MOM cooking because they are excited about what they make. :)
@danitykane (3183)
• Philippines
6 Dec 09
lol... I remember my mom! hahaha! I used to ask everything... be it an easy thing to do - you will find me asking help from her. I always ask her to cook for me and cook my favorite food. Sometimes kids are so lazy to do their chores...lolz.. Now I am older and was being asked to do stuff, I get pissed at times...haha! Happy Lotting!
@jkcokley (265)
• United States
6 Dec 09
Oh yes, mom! She always told me that she hoped I would have children just like me. NOW I know exactly what she meant by that! I truly believe that she prayed for god to send me children that would indeed drive me as crazy as I drove her. So, the meal that I learned to cook and make the fastest by the way was Pancakes because my mother would let the frig and freezer get down to near nothing before going grocery shopping. I'm sure I learned that from her as well. Oh, I do not enjoy the phrase "What's for Dinner!"
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• United States
13 Jul 10
My husband asks me that question constantly and I keep on giving him some great answers. I say things like Liver and Onions (he hates this), tapioca pudding (he does not like this either). I just mention things he does not like and then he stops asking me. I had learned this great piece of advice from his mom. I will also tell him that we are having starved steak and wind pie (my grandmother used that phrase a lot).
• United States
8 Jul 10
My husband isthe same way. He always ask me that question. One way I avoid this question is by telling him that I am going to make liver for dinner and serve tapioca pudding for dessert (two foods he does not like).After that he stops asking and just lets me cook whatever I have planned for that night. I wonder if you try something like that, if your kids will stop asking.