i love her,but...

China
December 5, 2009 7:34pm CST
when i was 16,i loved a girl whose name is mengmeng.she is lovely and her scores were good.at that time,i made a decision that working hard to surpass her.after a year,i was in ahead of her.i wanted to tell her"I love you,"but,i was afraid to affect her,and i gave up.when we were in senior three,she fell in love with our classmate.did you guess what i thought at that time.i believed that some people had the same experience,and you knew my ideas at the moment.now,after 4 years,i still love her.because we are in two different universities,i know less about her now.i know a little from her friends and the words which she writes on the renren. sometimes,i miss her.i don't know if she has a boyfriend.now,i want to tell her,"I love you "really.i hope she can read the words about my heart!
1 response
raynejasper
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
7 Dec 09
..hi alem.. I'm smiling while reading your post.. you see, you're just one of the guys I know who are afraid or very shy to approach their girl and tell them they love them.. you see, we girls or ladies admire those guys who personally court us.. there's only one solution to that.. to see her and tell her your feelings.. you just don't know, maybe she will also respond to your love.. most ladies wouldn't immediately say yes even if they actually love the guy courting them.. be courageous and express your love.. you have to take the risk.. that's the only way.. your problem won't be solve by just posting it here or telling that to your friends.. if you know her email, then you could communicate with her and befriend her first.. then later on, you can invite her to dinner or for a snack.. after sometime, you can already express your feelings to her.. there's nothing wrong being in love.. that's natural.. the most difficult thing to do is to tell the one you love about how you feel.. but eventually, you will overcome that I'm certain.. so Go!.. fight for your love..