when my wife does not care with me again.....

In a relationship sometimes there is a saturation point that is felt by each party which run a relationship. In a marriage, too. Saturation or boredom is the feeling of a human when run a constant relationship. However, saturation that's can be avoided with a refresher in the relationship. Does that mean? if you feel your wife did not care about you, don't soon think bad prejudice. Try to bring your wife traveling to the place where first time you date with her. Maybe that's can help as a refresher in your relationship

Hi Wijayabobo, (Are you Indonesian?) Do not blame your self too much, Try to do everything you can do at home, including helping your wife. Sometimes the wife wants to feel freedom from domestic drudgery. Increasingly questioned the more annoyed. Think of it not happen, unless you think there are mistakes. Maybe you always assume that a wife must take care of everything in the household, including serving your needs. this is already a common practice in domestic life in eastern region. Things that have long been the struggle of women: Emancipation and gender equality. Just try imagine, women worked incessantly and never finished. While the men work at the office hours, and went home. He assumes his obligations have been completed and requires the wife to do her duty to serve her husband, though there are many things can be done by his self. Enjoy your life, friend

you and wife need to communicate more. talk about the problems you are having together. tell her that you feel neglected. maybe she is just busy. find an hour in both of your schedule, a day, just to be together and do something you both love to do. or, maybe considering see a marriage counselor if you need a third person to help to communicate together.

tell her that you love her and you want to talk about making the marriage better than what it is right now, even if it's something that you both didn't expect for one to hear or say. dont forget to tell her at times that she still looks beautiful at times.they always want to hear things like that from you. the moe you get angry about whats going on the further away the marriage will fall apart.

What kind of care are you looking for? Maybe she is just busy with her work and your kid. It is really a stress to take care of your kid, work and do house chores. Does she cook for you? Do your clothes? Make you a cup of coffee? If so, then she still cares for you, she may not be affectionate or intimate with you right now. She maybe having experiencing kinda down now, and maybe you help lift her up and bring her mood up back again. Life is not always up, its just like a wheel, there are ups and down. Being married is a cooperation, when you are down, she will pull you up and when shes down you will pull her up as well. If you feel you need to explain further by what you mean, please do so, and I will be here to listen. :)