Anybody Knows How to Unlove a Person?

@anne0418 (268)
Philippines
December 8, 2009 4:23am CST
"I feel like I'm slowly losing you,don't leave me you're my backbone" the phrase that I heard from a partner that love me more than anything else.A person who put smiles to my face everyday.When I met him i learn to let things be,I realized that what matters most to me is the person and not the issue.But as days go by my concience is bothering me,because I know from the start that I can't owned him and that will never be happened because somebody owns him.Could you please teach me how to unlove a person?
3 responses
letssstalk
@letssstalk (285)
• India
8 Dec 09
Very Simple, TO love someone or unlove both are natural, Its not possible whom we love he/she love us too, same who love us it not easy for us to feel love for him/her. Just give time to yourself may be you feel something in heart , if not then start to make difference from him. Silently go out from his world.
anne0418
@anne0418 (268)
• Philippines
8 Dec 09
Im trying that,I know its not easy but If thats the right thing to do,then it will be ok eventhough it cause me tears and pain.
anne0418
@anne0418 (268)
• Philippines
8 Dec 09
Of course he means a lot to me,but for someones happiness sake,ill let him go...
letssstalk
@letssstalk (285)
• India
8 Dec 09
Why you feel tears and pain , it shows he mean something for you then try to accept the truth. all the best Friend
DenverLC
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
8 Dec 09
Just think that he is just using you for fun and lust. You told that somebody owned him already right? well its good you still have a white conscience after all. What if you put your self in the shoe of the person you are cheating both? it hurts right? that guy does not deserve your affection and love, he is just a user just think about it, then you will find your self one day free, happy and contented.
anne0418
@anne0418 (268)
• Philippines
8 Dec 09
Well maybe thats true also,yes I admit it Im stealing the home w/c somebody's place.Maybe we have the right love in the wrong time.Just now trying to be fair,Im starting my day w/out him,and I know one day all will be fine with me and with him with the one who really owns him.Thanks Denver...
DenverLC
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
That is nice to hear. Keep it up. Never attempt to look back and pray for a courage to continue moving on for a better and normal life.You will find the best for you as you go along a peaceful way.
abeja_reina_1989
@abeja_reina_1989 (347)
• United States
8 Dec 09
I wish I had a simple answer, but everyone deals with pain and grief in a different way. I would try to avoid him, for at least a few months so you can move on. The more you talk to him, the longer it's going to take you to move on.
anne0418
@anne0418 (268)
• Philippines
8 Dec 09
@ABEJA...Thanks so much for giving me your side.I know letting go is painful,letting go is hard to do when you are running away from him but he still there following you.But I do hope someday everything goes well.