Can you remember your first love's name?
@curiousplay54 (341)
Malaysia
December 8, 2009 9:26am CST
Hi...can you still remember the name of your first love or your first crush (hopefully not any artist?? If yes, please state the name or nickname. My first crush was with my classmate when we were in primary 4.I liked him because he was smart and always join my team when playing police and thief...hahahaha, his name is Yohanese.
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
8 Dec 09
Hi, curiousplay54. When I was in 1st and 2nd grade, I was in love with three brothers at the same time and they both knew it. Their names were, Tony, James and Darryl. Now when I was in 6th grade, I was really in love, and this was a very deep crush. It took me a long time to get over. His name was Tyrone. And guess what, I talked with him for the first time in 18 years. He was my 1st cousin. I was very much in love with him at one point in my life. He was all that I used to think about. And, I think that he had a slight crush on me too. It was very embarrassing. But it was true. I am 31 now and I only see him as my cousin, that is all.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
8 Dec 09
Thanks for understanding curiousplay54. I felt so ashamed after I grew up after all of this. Me and my cousin never ever talked about our feelings for each other. We did not even talk about it when I first saw him in October. He was so happy to see me. I thought that he hated me. But, I can see that he grew up so much after that. I am happy that he loves me as his cousin. I can tell that he loves me in only a family way. I was so embarrassed about my love puppy crush for him. But am I now married with three kids from to an entire different man whom I love dearly. I don't like telling people that I was in love with my own cousin but I know that I am not the only one that has experienced this before.
@curiousplay54 (341)
• Malaysia
9 Dec 09
May be its the culture here..I know a few couple who actually got married with their own relative, in one case a nephew marrying his aunt (they are of the same age). everyone was against the union but I'm not sure how they still managed to tie the knot in 2007. Now they are happily married with a son.
@curiousplay54 (341)
• Malaysia
8 Dec 09
Thanks for the sharing cream97, I understand how you feel. I had a big crush with my 2nd cousin too when I was in form 4, I was 16 and he was in his first year in university. I've have been admiring him since I was in form 1 but the feeling grew stronger in form 4 because we always see each other during weekends. But the next year, he took his ex girlfriend back and that was the end of our story.
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@soledadclickz (1106)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
Hi. My first crush named Elvin. We were 13 years old then. He was a friend of my cousin. I don't know why I liked him. Maybe because among all the friends of my cousin, he was the the only one who didn't even dare to communicate with me. I just know that he was around but he never joined our discussions whatsoever. I got curious about him.
We were fifteen years old when I knew the reason why he didn't talk to me. I was his crush that time and didn't know how to get close or communicate with me. We never became lovers but we had that mutual understanding about our feelings with each other. I don't have any contacts with him now.
@soledadclickz (1106)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
Aww, that was sad and I could relate to it. But in our case, I was the one who left our province to study college in the city. I have never returned to our province as I was able to get a job here after graduation. I am now happily married with someone else. Thanks for sharing.
@curiousplay54 (341)
• Malaysia
9 Dec 09
Your story reminds me of my friend's first love (this what she said)...they went to the same school, hang out all the time and they know that they liked each other but never moved to the next level. They never talk about their feeling but there is a mutual feeling and during that time both never had gf or bf. But when they were in form 3, the guy moved to a new town and they lost contact. Recently my friend found her first love in facebook...she was so happy but the sad thing is the guy has lost his feeling for her.
@laglen (19759)
• United States
8 Dec 09
My first "real" boyfriend was Scott. We were together from 15 years old til 18 yearsold. When he went to prison, I decide it was time to move on.
@curiousplay54 (341)
• Malaysia
8 Dec 09
That was smart of you laglen...I hope there is no regret after you made your decision.
@ifa225 (14461)
• Indonesia
8 Dec 09
hi curiousplay54,
your topic really make my mind went to the few years before. My first love is when i get 13 years old. His name is Mul, I like him because he is so gorgeous, his thick and black hair really amazing me. Just a physical attraction, unfortunately, he has not an inner beauty...hahaha... if i think it now, it is funny why i get crush on him. he is not really handsome by now for me...uupss...i hope he is not mad to read this..
@curiousplay54 (341)
• Malaysia
8 Dec 09
hahaha...Mul please don get upset with ifa225. Yohanese was my first crush and I was heart broken when my best friend told me she likes him too. He was cute but a little short that time...
@TJenkins602 (142)
• United States
9 Dec 09
I remember my first love's name. I'll keep it confidential though. When I first saw her, I thought she was so attractive that she wouldn't even give me a second look so I sort of just forgot she existed. I was fat at the time. A couple of months later we just locked eyes and she showed signs of attraction and then I found out through a friend that she actually liked me. Then I liked her but I was still sort of in denial. I had low self esteem at the time.
@curiousplay54 (341)
• Malaysia
9 Dec 09
Ooh why didn't you try at least? This is so sweet...do you still see each other now, just curious :-)?
@taurisca (104)
• Indonesia
23 Dec 09
hi curiousplay,
Your question makes me get my sentimental moment. yeah, I still remember his name, I still remember everything about him. He was my childhood friend. separated for 13 years and met again. My family moved to his city, near his house. I met him there and wondered how he could be so cool. I was 16 and he was 17 yrs old. his name is Ruston Nicholas W. we spent all the time together. went to school, at home, went to church,... I miss him very much now. where are you, Nick? ha ha ha
