When you asks for advice,do you follow it?,or,your decision is already made up!

Hello my bonita mia...sometime it happens, you ask for an advices and second opinion but you really stick on your own especially if that advice from our friends would not fit on own decisions. In my case I think it would depends on the status of the advises. Of course nothing would be blamed if we failed from our expectations but most likely we would be blaming for other opinion given to us if that opinion or advises failed. Anyway that's only my on my part my dear. You are still the master of your own self. My warmth regards to you and your kids.... Mobhomier...

When I was a child i used to ask others for advise. But as i grew up I started taking my own decisions. When i was a child i used to depend a lot on elders for their opinion and before taking any step i used to first ask them and followed their advice. But now even though I ask them sometimes, but in the end i judge what is right for me. So i hardly follow others advice.

Well, I'm not a follower type. So, when I ask for advice I don't naturally just follow it. Usually I ask many advices from many friends and compare their advices, weighing it, seek for pros and cons, and then a decision is made. But, it actually depends also on who the advisor is. If the advisor is someone I truly respect and I believe that they know what best for me, then usually I will follow it. :) Regards.

I normally do not go for advice as I know no one will have the time and patience to go throuh the nitty gritty of the situation and also there is a fear that they may withhold something that may upset me.

When I ask for advice, it usually means that I'm willing to take in everything that I can and follow it. However, if I ask and the information doesn't sound quite true or correct to me (when I know something about the information already), then I might not follow it. I might ask someone else about the same thing. For advice that I get randomly without asking, it's kind of 50/50 because I'm not really looking for any help but yet, I can't completely ignore this other person's advice either because you never know if you need it later, so I listen but I don't really follow unless I find that I really do need to follow it. Sometimes I do ask for others' advice because I want to compare with my own idea or other people's ideas. I like to hear a lot of different sides and then make my own decision in the end once I've compared them, but it depends too. Sometimes I don't really hear too much about a subject so I would follow what I already knew or what one of my family members or friends tell me because that's all I know about it.

I will compare the advice with my opinion, then consider it. I will take the best opinion after thoruogh consideration.

it really depends on the situation, my dear friend. but most of the time, it's my own decision. and sometimes, i just get second opinion from others before going through. at least, we can see for ourselves what other people could think about something and sometimes reciprocates with us.

hi,jaiho it really depends the questions.i will deal the problems with my friends's way for it is wise.but if i am confused and it will change my life or it is important for me then i will analyse and adopt part of advice. nice day

For me, It's not a matter of following someone advice or not. I think we are the one who should be responsible for everything happen in our life. Hence, when I ask for it, I'll take it as an opinion rather than advice. Then I'' think of the pros and cons from what people have said. Then I make the decision.