How do You cope with a joker?

December 8, 2009 7:49pm CST
It's good to have a bit of humour in a relationship but sometimes it can go a bit too far, do You ever pull Your hair out trying to get a straight answer or have a serious discussion? Like just this morning, my man walked in the room with his hands in his pockets, he looked down and depressed, I asked him if he was feeling himself, he said " no, I'm just looking for some loose change in my pocket" I mean, where do You start?
3 responses
shibham
@shibham (16977)
• India
9 Dec 09
all everything are positive but your vision should be positive to measure it. i dont find anything wrong with your hubby. some spouse are suspicious. my girlfriend disliked me even i am talking with an another dirl. i have just mentioned it bcoz our positive thinking is the main remedy of all frustrations. take care. lol
shibham
@shibham (16977)
• India
9 Dec 09
no no no....i never say u suspicious. i say some wives are suspicious. i have found some evidences too. dont misunderstand me. take care.
DameJenny
@DameJenny (108)
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9 Dec 09
Oh, I'm not suspiscious Shibham, I just wish we could talk sensibly now and then to keep things straight and know where we are headed.
ybong007
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
I think you're looking at the glass of water as half empty rather than half full.
DameJenny
@DameJenny (108)
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9 Dec 09
You may be right ybong007 but he's like this all the time even when there are serious things to discuss.
ybong007
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
9 Dec 09
Well if that's the case try reverse psychology. Do all the joking this time and see how he would react. Cheers!
dpk262006
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
9 Dec 09
Hi Dame! Welcome to mylot family. I think that your man was in a lighter mood and wanted to have some fun to enliven the atmosphere. I feel that humour is very necessary in our life, irrespective of the fact whether it comes from a joker or somebody else. Without humour out life would be dull and drab. You should have laughted at him and he would have laughted along with you, when you heard his reply.