What to do after a break up.

@werdan88 (272)
Philippines
December 9, 2009 7:11pm CST
NOt all relationships are expected to last forever. relationships end every now and then for whatever reason there may be.:( Recently I broke up with my girlfriend and cried a few times to feel a little better. In your opinion what are the ways for one to get over a broke heart? What is the best way to get over a past love.
2 responses
danitykane
@danitykane (3183)
• Philippines
10 Dec 09
hi werdan, I guess being busy may help. Do the things you love doing...or try to do something new or see things you have not tried doing before. Spend more time with your family and friends. For me, it is sometimes okay to feel the pain in every unsuccessful relationship. We need it for us to become more stronger and better with life. I honestly believe that time can only heal a broken heart. Just take your time and go through that process but, don't dwell your time thinking about your recent relationship. Just be the person you once before...that happy and strong werdan! And always pray to Him. Happy Lotting!
Kayla Tsukino
@kaylachan (69370)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
10 Dec 09
Relationships can be tricky things, but it is of my opinion that if you truely love someone you don't really "get over them". If it is a fling, then sure it may hurt for a while, but eventually the mind and heart realize the true nature of the effection. But, in the same regard true love is being able to give up so the other person can be happy. In any case, all you can do is take it one day at a time. Healing of any nature can't and shouldn't be rushed.