happy relationship

Philippines
December 9, 2009 11:57pm CST
I just want to share how happy I am with my current relationship. We've been together for more than six years now and still wishing for many more years to come. We've been through thick and thins. We have faced a lot of challenges and trials which hurt our feelings but fortunately, we were able to surpass all of those obstacles. This is a message to all people who are facing some problems with their relationships. Do not give up as long as you know what you are fighting for. In the end, you will find real happiness. But of course, it doesn't mean you will no longer experience some hindrances when that time comes. You just have to be strong and have faith in your love.
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@danilliam (278)
• Philippines
10 Dec 09
congratulations that you find the love of your life.=) you also finished the obstacles and God gives problems that he knows you will be able to get pass.i not found love of my life yet.i too young.hehehe but i wish that i will meet him one day and we will have the good love like you have.=)
• Philippines
10 Dec 09
Well, how young are you by the way?...If you are still very young, then maybe it's not yet the right time for you to search for the right one for you. But I hope someday, you can find someone who will love you as much as you do. Just wait.;-)
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• Philippines
7 Jan 10
yes.i very young.i only 19 going 20 in March.i take your advice and wait.thanks!=)
@tina256 (190)
• China
11 Dec 09
yes ,you are right .i have a boyfrind for more two years ,and i know what is important for between us ,yes ,we have quarreled with each other ,but the more time we 're happy .always ,just stand he side ,think what good for him ,he can feel it,and just do something good for me .i think this is a process of repecting each other .
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@sublime03 (2339)
• Philippines
10 Dec 09
I feel the same way with my relationship with my hubby. We have been together for 6 years and we are still on a roll. We have gone through so many ups and downs already but we are still here to stay together. There were times that we would have different views at things but we still patch things up at the end of the day. Anyway, congratulations to you and your relationship that is going great! May you have more happy years with him.
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• United States
10 Dec 09
I am in a very good relationship also now for 21 1/2 yrs. We are going through a rough patch but it always works out some how. Enjoy the relationship as you obviously have been and it will grow and blossom into something fantastic as the years go on. Thanks for sharing and Merry Christmas.
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• India
10 Dec 09
Hai, you are very lucky, you got very good life partner. My partner also takes lot of care. He is very caring. He is very nice person. In our 4 years married life he never scold me. I am very lucky. He never share any problem with me. Still, i dont know what is a problem.
• United States
10 Dec 09
Hi pentagan and CONGRATS. It is so pleasing to the ears to hear good things about love instead of always the negative. So many people find themselves so unhappy because they have settled. I myself was guilty of that. Its taken 2 bad marriages to come to the reality that no one should settle just because. I myself have finally found my true love (even though love was honestly the last thing I was looking for) and have never been happier. We have been together for just 7 months but we know. We knew the first time we saw each other after 30yrs. Yes we were kids growing up on the same street. I was only 13 when my parents and I moved away. For some reason one day I was on myspace putting in peoples names from school and put his in. There he was. We exchanged numbers and started talking like the 30yrs had never happened. That was over a year ago. It is amazing actually how many times we feel that God tried to get us together and for what ever reason we missed each other. Here we had gone to the same concerts visited the same stores, Went skating at the same rink. We even had the same girl cutting our hair. During our short time together we have faced alot of challenges with adult children ex spouses and such but we know we have each other ,we will always be vy each others sides and yes We and Our Love are well worth fighting for.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Dec 09
hi pentagan12 if you have been though six years why not get married and make it permanent. I just wonder as an elderly lady why nobody marries and so many relationships only last a few years anyway yet all you say you dont want to marry cause there are so many divorces,isnt just living together making it easier if one or the other doesnt agree to just split up? I mean come on there is committment with marriage, thats what marriage is for. okay off my soap box now. happy life and happy mylotting.
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
10 Dec 09
Hi pentagan12,In 32 years of my married life i can say that i am very lucky for having such a happy relationship with my husband.Although some times we've done thru ups and downs. Any way,Problems are always a part of our life because nothing is perfect relationhip .Despite all that we've survived...Everything goes smooth and fine.I'm so happy for having a caring and loving husband, and a very supportive children.Thanks,Have a nice day!
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@Nancy23 (36)
• China
10 Dec 09
Really happy for you ,think of themselves but also into the wedding hall,thinking about their own life must come to an end,I am worried that this will be wrong step will be to worry about family financial situation?With the wife and family to get along all right?Love to the last and love me ? I was not too worried about it ?
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• Philippines
10 Dec 09
hello pentagan.... i'm very much happy to hear that you are happy in your relationship and i wish the same too with my husband...part of relationship are the ups and down.these are the spices that keeps the relationship more stronger. in my two yrs marriage, i still find difficulties since both of us are far from each other. but i am looking forward for a happy and successful family.
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@chriszh22 (432)
• China
10 Dec 09
Glad to hear that, I'd like to sharing my happniess with you as well! I'm with my lover for over eight years now, like what you said, we've been through a lot during these years, even broke up twice, but love rejoint us together and we're quite settling down, newly bought a small apartment of our own with heavy mortages, but which just make us more close to each other, since we too will shoulder together, what a nice feeling ever!
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• Philippines
10 Dec 09
hello... it's pleasing to hear happy love stories. You are lucky indeed to have each other and that you found your one true love in each other's company. Keep the love and keep the faith.
• Philippines
20 Feb 10
Wow that's nice. I also have my current relationship happy. We are 2 years and 5 months and there are really a lot of trials and sad moments but happiness is more than those. Just to be with him is already my happiness and I will always stay right besides him (not literally) which means always understand him and never give up on all the trials that may come.