How to manage your emotions?
By langman2009
@langman2009 (51)
China
December 10, 2009 12:13am CST
We are people with fleshand blood, we have emotions , such sadness, happiness and so on,but if we can manage then properly, they could damage our plans, even our health. so , do you know how to take them well under control? Come and share!
4 responses
@karenkarenkk (1121)
• China
10 Dec 09
Hello, Langman, I too feel difficult to control my emotions sometimes.
You may try to focus on other things when you feel unhappy. Put it down for a little while, and get back later you may feel much better now.
In my current job, I have to deal with lots of tough customers. Sometimes, it really drive me crazy. Anyway, I have to face it. Get a deep breath, and go on. And try to take it easy.
Best wishes.
@langman2009 (51)
• China
11 Dec 09
Hello, Karenkarenkk, thank you for your opinions!
I think i will find worthy of trust, talk to him or her, sometimes maybe just eat and watch a movie or listen to the music, play computer games also can shift your attention!
@maftab92 (23)
• Pakistan
19 Dec 09
if you accept the way you are with your strengths and weaknesses and at the same time you accept others the way they are, you will be able to handle your emotions in a healthy way. to do so you need to have courage and you need have a good self image.....you need to build your self esteem. research indicates people with healthy self esteem and positive self image have a bettr emotional quotient (EQ). at the same time, remember we can't change others but we can change ourselves. when we try or hope others to change we put pressure on ourselves and as a result we are stressed out whereas others are enjoying. when we work on ourselves we move towards personal developmenet, which will give you a sense of peace and contenment. to my knowledge personal development is the purpose of life.
@Apple3Cranberry (678)
• United States
16 Dec 09
I don't think that you should control your emotions. It will lead you to controlling your life. And you want your life to be easy and moving. This is what I think. I think this because too much control can lead to stagnation. Also love happens when we share. Sharing is a process of interaction between humans and there is always emotions with that. Interacting with humans gives us ourselves information about who we are and who others are and who we want to be.