can you control your anger?

@ifa225 (14460)
Indonesia
December 10, 2009 2:01am CST
when i get angry, sometimes i just can't hold it. It blow just like that. after showing my anger, I often disappointed. I feel like I am no meaning, i am so cruel, i am so bad. do you ever feel that way? what do you do when your anger fill your emotion?
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@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
11 Dec 09
You may have an anger control problem. At least you are aware of it. But you need help in controlling it I think. This kind of anger problem can lead to domestic violence. It is what broke up our marriage. Please get help.
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 09
that is very nice jenny bianca, thank you very much..
@kyle32 (65)
• United States
10 Dec 09
heck no i cant keep my anger in i hate it when people get me angry i would just blow up everytime a fool gets my blood pressure up i have like a short temper like i would blow up on this kid named javoen in class this kid is like my arch enemy i hate the way he smells in scienece when he just farts and runs away
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 09
hey kyle32..you are sound like me. Maybe this high temper is a gift, most member of my family also blow when the get angry :(
@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
10 Dec 09
There are times, when I can't control my anger. Sometimes, I just can't control it and blow up. But it's not always the case. There are times, when I am also able to control my anger. I have an easier time controlling my anger than I used to, which is definitely something that I'm happy about. Controlling my anger is something that I'm really trying to work on, and so far it's on the right track, in my opinion.
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
10 Dec 09
Anger is one emotion I feel very rarely. I hardly get angry. I am grateful to God that I got this one quality from my father. I have a very cool head and so where usually people shout, I remain calm and reason and question the other person. On those rare occasions when I do get angry, I go very quiet. I do not talk at all. But if even then someone irritates me and I reach my limit, then I just cannot hold myself back. There have been a couple of occasions when I have been pushed to my limit and I do not even remember what I did in my anger. I just lose control over myself.
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 09
that is the same way just what i feel...in this way, you just repress your anger, then if i can not take it anymore, i just blow out. I also did not remember what i have done. ouch...:((
• China
10 Dec 09
when i get angry ,i will try my best to calm dowm my heart. and tell me that anger is bad, it do harm to not only others' feelings but also my own health. so, i control myself not to anger. Wish you happy everyday!
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 09
thinking how the anger is bad maybe could calm me down...thank you very much fancy for sharing, i wish you too...
• United States
10 Dec 09
Most of the time I can controll my anger depending on who its with. If its at work then its a lot easier for me to controll my anger if my parents are pissing me off then it would be a lot harder for me to control my anger and a lot of times I end up loosing it but for the most part im pretty good about it.
@kaylachan (71942)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
10 Dec 09
To be quite honest I'm not one of those people who are known to have a short fuse. Instead I'm generally calm. If I get angery I'll often complain about whatever it is that's bothering me but I don't have the willpower to do much anything about it. Sometimes if provoked enough that fuse will explode. But, that's very, very, rare.