Have you hurted by your friend?
By Norah0804
@Norah0804 (165)
China
December 10, 2009 9:56am CST
Yesterday i could not fall asleep until 2 o'clock in the morning. A friend did something really hurt me, at first i felt very angry and then called him to show my anger. However he didn't pick up the phone.
He sent a message to me that he would break up with me. I decided to leave him alone and i think i have tried my best. Perhaps we are not friends any more.
Have you experienced this before? Please share with me. Thank you.
Have a nice day.
3 responses
@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
10 Dec 09
Hi Norah,
yes...many times but i took the positive side of it. i learned so much from that experience. i am so sensitive before but now i realized there are lots of beautiful things to appreciate to and not to deal with hurts and pains. there's a purpose why i got hurt whether intentional or unintentional... now i can bear will all the dramas in life. not sensitive and emotional about everything.
@Norah0804 (165)
• China
11 Dec 09
I quite envy your attitudes towards sorrow or pains. There are so many wonderful things that i shall not focus on the sorrow.
Thank you for your idea, i really appreciate that.
Have a good day, my dear friend.
@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
11 Dec 09
i am happy that you appreciated my views. i hope this will make you change the way you look at sorrows and pains. it feels so good to focus more on the positive side of things and stay happy. being happy will make you happy!
@wl519615150 (44)
• China
10 Dec 09
Norah,i could not fall aleep if i had meet the same thing just like you.But the reason he hurt you, you have not told us,you know the reason is important.If you think he is a good friend,you may leave him alone and keep you calm.
@Norah0804 (165)
• China
11 Dec 09
I don't know how to say, to some extent, he was my ex, and we broke up 2 years ago, then we became good friends, sometimes eat out and have a chat with each other. Several days ago he expressed his love to a girl, but she refused, he was depressed. Then he became very strange, refuse others' help, even say something really heart me, i can't tolerate him, i fed up with giving in, i think perhaps i am not a friend for him any more.
@darylT (85)
• Philippines
23 Jul 10
only friends and people you care about can hurt you. their opinions matter to you that's why you're affected by their actions. friends sometimes hurt each other but bad feelings do not stay that way too long if you're still important to each other. i too have been hurt by friends before and have hurt them as well. but we just need time to cool down and then afterwards, go back to being friends again. just give him time to collect himself. if he still considers you his friend, he'll call or text you again. if he does not do that, well i guess, you've lost him for good.
