why do women flirt 1

Nigeria
December 10, 2009 3:49pm CST
Hello people please i want to know why women flirt alot even when they are in a serious relationship or even married?s it natural t o the female folks of are we men the cause or what ?please somone has to help us out here it causes alot of HEART break. Rockcafella 1
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• United States
10 Dec 09
Most women flirt because they need to know if their flirtatious ways gets the attention of another male. That doesn't mean they want to take it another step further, they just want to know that they are actractive to men. All women want that, don't let them fool you... Unfortunately, most men don't understand that, and they think the woman wants more. So, do I blame the man....certainly not...I believe men are born with a need that woman don't have. Therefore, the woman should be the stronger one, and refrain what could hurt other people. But, in today's world...HAH!...the young females are whole different breed then what was around when I was younger.
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• United States
10 Dec 09
I couldn't agree with you more. I have one very flirtatious friend whom has tons of male friends and flirts like crazy with them all, even though she has a boyfriend. I simply cannot understand that. I'm very flirtatious with my husband on an everyday basis and can't imagine batting my eyes or talking sweet with another man. I definitely understand the need to feel attractive...but it's only with my husband. So many women these days prance around in skimpy clothes and eight pounds of make up as if appearing attractive is some race. ...and then they wonder why they get these guys who consistently want them to change their bodies and wear certain clothes...
• United States
11 Dec 09
I, too, agree! Women who dress in that manner, and flirt continuously with men, are asking for trouble, and I don't blame the men at all.
• Nigeria
19 Dec 09
Hello People i strongly agree with you on the facts that young women of these day beg for men and since many men can not resist the temptations of these young ladies who expose their bodies its encourages them t o flirt the more but i want us t o have a campaign t o see how far we can stop these ladies because they contribute t o the high number of Divorce we have in the world and the bible is strongly against so how do we tackle this i would like practical examples from the flirt addicts themselves. take care all and thanks fro your contributions Rockcafella
• India
11 Dec 09
I don't think all women flirt or rather want to flirt. I have seen quiet a few who do flirt, but its just a harmless way to make them feel they are still attractive or young. If you think ur lady is doing the same, just talk to her and let her know how you feel.
• India
20 Dec 09
Yes, I am a christian and I absolutely know and believe flirting is wrong. As you asked me to place myself in the shoes of a married man, and my wife isn't listening even I tell her, I would sought to God for help, As only he would know my pain. I would show her several scriptures from the bible, what according to God is marriage and its importance, and that she need to avoid behavior that will damage the marital arrangement. Well, if she really cares for my feelings and also for God, then she should change. But, anyways, I just wanted to ask, even after a mate tells that what you do isn't acceptable and hurts me, how can the other still keep doing the same and hurt them? I hope you are sure that she flirts or may be she is just close, or a very freely interactive person?
• Nigeria
19 Dec 09
Hello Thanks i appreciate your contribution a lot i want t o know if you are a christian and if you support flirting and i want t ask you if you are in the mans shoes you dialogue with your wife and tell her you hate flirting and she continues what will you do ? thanks and keep in touch
@musicman6 (2407)
• United States
11 Dec 09
Men flirt just as much as women do, they are not much different, even when they are in a serious relationship or even married! I guess it's just part of nature !
@stealthy (8181)
• United States
10 Dec 09
I don't know why. I do know that I do not pick up on it very quickly and only later realize that I was being flirted with. I hate this since who knows what I may have missed out on if I had just realized what was going on at the time and flirted back.
@smileonstar (4007)
• United States
10 Dec 09
HI, first of all, welcome to mylot. Women are not the same... if you meet a woman that love to flirt then there is nothing u can stop her cuz she is addictive. and other women don't do that at all. you are honest but ur girl is not honest with you so you know what to do, right? leave her to be a man that she wants... and u find someone else that honest with you
• India
11 Dec 09
Very good question. It probably gives them a huge kick. No woman on earth likes being ignored by men. It is this craving for attention which has ruined men who have taken them seriously.