why is it like this?
By pentagan12
@pentagan12 (757)
Philippines
December 11, 2009 1:02am CST
I used to ask myself why do we sometimes argue about petty things? Well, I just want to express and share my feelings for today about my boyfriend. While I was doing something with my computer awhile ago, my boyfriend approached me and asked for a favor. He wanted me to make his requirement at school again. I am the one who's making his assignments for this semester since he is always busy because of their coming graduation. I do understand this situation. It's just that I just thought it was too much already because he was asking me to make an evaluation about the staff nurses in the hospital where he is having a training as a nurse. When I said I couldn't make it because in the first place, I haven't met those people, so what will I write in the evaluation, right? Then he got mad, he was starting to mention all the negative things about me which really hurt my feelings. What will I do? Please help guys. I need your opinion. Thanks
2 responses
@spicysweetie21 (2573)
• United States
11 Dec 09
I do not know your entire history with this guy, but from what you just said....this guy sounds like a real jerk, and I think you need to leave him. If he is making you do his school work, that right there is so wrong on many levels, and then the fact that you couldn't do it because of a legitimate reason, he was verbally abusive to you. That is what it is honey, i have been in your shoes where a guy puts you down when he is not happy. Please, please, please leave this guy because he sounds like bad news. If you are such a sweet person to want to help him, then I am 100% positive you can find someone else that deserves that sweetness.....if you don't leave him, then at the least, sit him down and tell him that he has no freaking right to talk to you that way, that you will not be put down by him. Please keep me updated, and if you ever need anyone to talk to, you can message me, I have been in your shoes so I know how you feel.
@pentagan12 (757)
• Philippines
11 Dec 09
Hi. Thanks to your opinion. It really touched my heart but no matter how I try, I love this guy and I cannot find a valid reason to leave him. Maybe, I was just hurt. But I am still hoping that everything would turn out to be fine. But I will take time to think over what you've said. Thanks again. ;-)
@harshalapugol (44)
• India
11 Dec 09
SEE my dear friend helping is there only in friendship but it should be from both the sides and it is a good nature of a person and if it is only one side then it is not helpin but it is using. reading ur problem i thing that that person is using u for his benifits just stop helping him dear and see his reaction if it bad forget about that jerk..... ALL THE BEST
