not so close...

It's very hard, Kkperryman. My sister passed away a few years ago but I still have a brother. We only communicate with each other about once a year...usually during the holidays. I don't deal with it very well. I wish we were closer, as we only have each other but what do you do when the other person does not want to communicate? We have a lot of "issues" from childhood but I've grown past them. He's 2 years younger than me but is still hanging onto those things. I just focus on my end. What I can do to further improve our relationship. If he's unwilling, oh well. At least I've done what I can. It's very sad though. The holidays are meant to be spent with families. I always send emails and ecards but there is very rarely a response from his side. At least I try, you know? i deal by focusing on my own sense of fulfillment in my attempts to communicate. If he chooses not to respond, that his choice. Happy holidays!